We need another gentlemen to help us with a fantasy. I am keen to try.
Where do you find someone, presumably websites?
Obviously safe etc etc etc
I don't know much about this personally, but Fabswingers gets a lot of mentions on here.
Tinder. Put a topical photo on (nothing too naughty obviously) and just be honest in your bio about what you're looking for, that way you may find someone who knows straight up what you want and they'll be nearby!
It all depends what your willing to try and wanting to do and try, and yes fabswingers is a good site but be warned there's a few time wastersmarried_and_catchingup wrote:
We need another gentlemen to help us with a fantasy. I am keen to try.
Where do you find someone, presumably websites?
Obviously safe etc etc etc
I second fabswingers. Your inbox will be full by the end of the day. Some dont even care what you look like ect And others are very specific. I found the guys are all very respectful and helpful. Although we haven't met up with anyone the chats have always been good. You can now do a live cam chat so you know who your meeting.
Yes exactly and I'm happy to cam and chat and so we all have a good laugh and feel at ease when we meet if anyone is interested
Tinder, great idea, had not thought of that. Pic might be a bit tricky, a pre kids topless one would probably hit the mark but might be a bit misleading. Will look at Fabswingers, it always seemed a bit, errr, rough?
As you have all probably guessed, he wants to see me ...
We are both late 40s.
I think I don't do too bad in the body department but I am no Kate Upton.
Very happy to do the deed now that I am content that hubs is serious.
Any suggested approaches to this particular mid life adventure?
Well it sounds like your going to have fun. fabs or Tinder both good ways to go, be choosy and read feedbacks (on Fabs)....and happy playing
married_and_catchingup wrote:
Tinder, great idea, had not thought of that. Pic might be a bit tricky, a pre kids topless one would probably hit the mark but might be a bit misleading. Will look at Fabswingers, it always seemed a bit, errr, rough?
As you have all probably guessed, he wants to see me ...
We are both late 40s.
I think I don't do too bad in the body department but I am no Kate Upton.
Very happy to do the deed now that I am content that hubs is serious.
Any suggested approaches to this particular mid life adventure?
Again, another thing I know practically nothing about 🙂, but have you considered a swinger's club?
I remember this being quite a detailed thread if you want to read more from people who have actually been.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1726162-swingers-clubs/
Anyone done the thing I am talking about?
As someone who has lurked on fab for years, I can officially say that there is someone for everyone there, especially if you are female 😂 (slightly assumptious sexism there, but in my experience there is usually a man happy to please not too far away)
We had/having the same issues, very difficult to find a decent person/couple, we tried some sites but got no stop time wasters and some very strange people lol oh well the search continues.
Have been looking at swingers club but not sure where to start ....
I've been to two swinger clubs and the people that go to them are nice and friendly as some of them are in the same position as yourself new nervious and horny Lol,
Fabswingers is great, I have a profile on there, and me and my partner also have a couples profile, we have met some lovely like minded ladies/couples. We also go to a swingers club every now and again and always have a really good night.
Me and hubby should give it another go on Fabswingers, would like to go to a club but again its building up the courage and taking that first step
Even if you don't get naked and you have a few drinks and socialise it's first steps and building up to that naughty night lol