Hi everyone. I am a boob man through and through, my partner has a good pair but they are not really big enough for my taste which is fine, I lover her for her and we are in a commited relationship.
I recently saw a pair of gigantic breast forms (like giant chicken fillets) intended for trans dressers and mastectomy patients. And I have gotten the idea to buy a pair and ask my partner to wear these on top of her own breasts, thus filling my fantasy/ fetish for gigantic breasts.
I'm curious to know if any woman would wear these on top of her own? I don't want to insult her by saying she isn't big enough, but it is a fantasy of mine.
I would love her to wear them out in every day clothes, bursting at the seams. The pair I have seen are 4lbs each and add about 7 inches of bust. I wish I could post a photo to show, if you dare you can search on ebay. Anyway any advice would be great. Much love everyone. Dave boobman
I would personally see how she feels about this. Some women would be game, some not so much, the same way some guys are happy to wear penis extenders for their partners while some would be offended. This is not somethingn I would just purchase and spring on her hoping she's cool with it.
Another thing to consider is large boobs are heavy lol. And can really put a strain on her back, especially since something like that is just suddenly adding on 4lbs more, and will also require different bras and tops.
I have never worn this on top of my breasts but I would be insulted if a partner would ask me to do so! Especially after telling me that my breasts are fine. Maybe going with something else would be a good start, for example, some padded bras can add volume up to a few cup sizes
I would be very upset if my OH wanted me to wear something to make it look like I had larger boobs. I would feel inadequate and insecure.
Don't buy anything until you have talked to her to see her reaction first. And start telling her carefully and if she reacts bad maybe you should just leave it.
Overwhelming no then :( ok I will hold off. We have talked before about fetishis and I've said I do have a love of gigantic boobs but I just can't think of a way to bring this up without causing insult. Thanks everyone so far.
Maybe don't start of with "they're not big enough for my tastes"...thos definitely shouts they're not good enough.
Speak to her though and try explain why it turns you on. If she can understand that its a fetish and that you're not wishing she looked like Lola Ferrari then you might be in luck!
Us woman-folk are very protective of our boobs no matter the size and shape so choose your words nicely.
I would be insulted and honestly, extremely insecure following that experience, especially if you purchased them before even speaking to me. It would potentially ruin my relationship if my partner told me that what I had wasn't filling his fantasies and fetishes because I'd be so insecure following that, I'm not sure I'd come back from it.
I don't know how your partner will feel obviously, but I definitely agree with above that communication here is essential. I would talk to her about your fetish again, but be careful how you word things and see if you can find a compromise such as a padded plunge bra?
I've got to admit, my normal line of responce with an unknown feitsh is 'if my partner was super into it and asked me to consider it, I would' and I say that as someone who engages avtively in widespread knks and feitshes, some that wouldn't be to others tastes.
However, just thinking about my partner asking me to do this makes me really upset. Your wife might be a bit more game for it, but I do think you need to tread very carefully. Body image is a huge area of complexities for most women.
I can make my boobs look a good two sizes bigger with the right bra and top, would this be a bit of a compromse? If she already has a fair bit of boobage to work with it could definitely give the burtsting at the seams look.
It's also worth noting that they may not be very comfortable or fun for your wife to wear. Normal boobs can be heavy and uncomfortable, depending on their size, so adding to that may not be the best option, again depending on your wife's specific size.
I think there is no discreet way to bring this up, if you decide to ask you may just have to go for it and be prepared to do lots of smoothing over if she doesn't take it so well.
I would be highly insulted. How would you feel if she bought you a penis extension and asked you to wear it in bed? Works both ways. This could be really damagaing to her self esteem.
Eak - I don't think this is a good idea. It could damage more than her self esteem and your relationship: what about her posture?!
I would recommend you try wearing 8lbs (plus the weight of her natural breasts) from your shoulders and see what the back ache is like afterwards?
I understand this is a fetish and I think the best way to go about it is to explain your fetish to her, and see if she suggests a way to experience it together. If not, you may be limited to exploring this fetish through porn only I'm afraid.
Everyone has preferences but if I knew that my OH thought my boobs weren't big enough for his taste I would be extremely hurt. I would be thinking "but these are the boobs I had when we met, so what else doesn't he like".
Many woman have hang ups about their bodies but asking her to wear fake boobs may make her feel inadequate and loose confidence in herself.
There is nothing wrong with fantasies/fetishes but those that involve part of the body that a partner can't or not easily change is in my opinion a difficult one to address.
As someone else has mentioned underwear is a good place to start. You have mentioned she has a good pair of boobs so tell her you'd like to buy her some bras that will show them off. A great bra will emphasise their shape and size, give a cleavage and a padded bra will add size. It won't give you the massive boobs you desire but it's a small step. See how she reacts, if she doesn't want to wear a padded bra (some have significant padding sometimes too much for me) then the chances are she isn't going to like the idea of massive fake boobs. However if she likes the way a padded bra makes her boobs look bigger than maybe in a delicate and sensitive way discuss the fake boobs.
I'm sure there must be women out there who would wear fake boobs and maybe your OH is one of them but to go ahead and just purchase a pair isn't the way forward.
Talk to your partner. I would go mental if mine did that to me as I am slim with small breasts myself. He is also a self confessed boob man .....and I would prob still be cold towards him even after talking to be honest so be prepared for any eventuality. I do understand people have fetishes but sometimes these should be perhaps remain a fantasy and indulged in through porn. As several people have also pointed out.....how would you feel if she bought you a penis extension irrespective of what size you may already be. I agree, just talk it through and tread carefully.
If she wanted bigger she would buy padded bras, ask her about those but nice dressy ones, not ones that would maker feel uncomfortable, please please don't just buy this and be very careful, like tummies, mine I hate, this can be very hurtful.
Communication is key, talk over your fantasies with your partner and see how she would feel about it. As others have said its alot of weight to suddenly add to her body, she could feel that shes not enough for you and very hurt. Talk to her and even look for alternatives that are not her having to carry extra weight and putting more strain on her back.