Hello! Recently I bought a big silicone dildo ("Maverick" from Tantus) for my girlfriend. Well, she managed very well with it and now I want to buy another one, even bigger. I'm looking for a skin safe strap-on (preferably) realistic dildo (which can be used without a condom) with 6.5-7in circumference and 7+in length. The problem is that I can't spend hundreds of GBP for ultra-quality harnesses. I just want a massive toy, which can be attached somehow to the body in order to be used in the more "natural" way, without holding it with hands. What would you recommend?
The problem with these dildos is that they aren't so skin safe... We have bought only silicone toys until now and we aren't sure if it's good to buy others. Also, we'll have to use always a condom with them, which wouldn't be so comfortable.
It seems that it's even difficult to find big enough silicone toys...
Anyway, thanks for the advice. If I don't find a decent option, probably I'll buy something realistic and use it with a condom.
We have a homemade "harness". Not sure it wins prizes for looks but it works!
I took an old Playtex panty gurdle (yes like your granny had!) and cut and stirched a hole to take the suction cup at the base of the dildo. Like making a big buttonhole!!!
It had to be in the "control pannel" section so it is slightly higher on the body than would be natural but still useable.
I then took took some Lycra type material and folded to four times thickness. I cut a square and then made another "big buttonhole" in the centre. I slid this down over the shaft and sitched it in place around the fake balls.
It worked well but I improved it with a Lycra strip put over the dildo and going all the way around like a belt. This seemed to add stability and control.
Because it's not quite where a cock would naturally be it best suits the position where I'm kneeling on the bed and my partner standing on the floor.
Even in a really well designed purpose made harness they'd be too heavy and hard to control.
Looks like silicone is mainly used for anal dildos but unless you have a known latex allergy I wouldn't worry. Try buying a box of latex gloves (available as disposable gloves for housework). If you can wear the gloves without a reaction I'd say you were not allergic!
we use bam dildo which is pretty big! Got an o-ring made at work to suit diameter(handy having engineers at work) slipped that on shaft to the bottom and used a shoulder strap from sports bag to cilp on to it .worked perfect