My wife and I are interested in trying some more humiliation type of play. We are going to make a list of ideas and agree some limits beforehand. I'm concerned to also have proper aftercare ideas in place as well. I like the idea of treating her very mean before we have sex, but I need to make sure she feels like a princess afterwards.
We would be grateful for any tips, insights, or additions to our lists. We definitely need some more outside the box ideas.
Humiliation ideas: Face slapping Verbal insults Spanking Forcing her to undress Nipple play Naked housework Hair pulling Tickling Fingers/objects in mouth Spit play ... more ideas needed!
aftercare ideas: Bath Footrub Massage Cuddling Food and drink Candles Fragrance diffuser Watching a film together Talking together ...ideas welcome, though I'm sure my wife can make me a long list!