I have no clue where to post this

I will keep this here in the meantime. Since I watched porn I loved watching the women but also loved seeing a hard cock cum, sometimes wishing I could help. I used to tell myself to stop being gay and just watch. I never knew it but years ago I came out of the closet as bisexual (later seeing it as pansexual).

I would talk to women and we would get into a sex topic conversation and I would tell them and they would want to get to know me more. When I identified as straight, this never happened. A woman told me it’s because I am ‘validating my fem side’. I don’t know.

I know my ex would have broken up with me- but everyone else became intrigued.

Just sharing :slight_smile:

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Thank you for sharing

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Always best to embrace who you are and then you’ll find the right types of people will naturally gravitate towards you :slightly_smiling_face:

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You do you buddy

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Ive watched plenty of porn down the years, also finding myself being drawn to more than just straight porn, including gay/bisexual porn.

I also had an encountet years ago with a guy, but when gf shared a bisexual fantasy with me it helped me open up about what turns me on and what i enjoy when it comes to sex, to the point she was the first person i told about my guy fun.

We now share many naughty times together watching bisexual mmf porn during sex, and its the hottest sex ive had. So yeah, its good to open up about what you enjoy… you’ll be surprised

She knows id love it for real as id even love to see her with someone else but to her its only a fantasy and says its never happening sadly

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Thanks for sharing. You’ll hear similar stories all over the forum so you’re not alone. I’m straight and feel no emotional or sexual attraction to men. But I can acknowledge that Brad Pitt is gorgeous, cry at the relationship between Sam and Frodo, and would love to give oral to a cock because even a realistic dildo makes me think “YUM”.
But I want nothing to do with the man attached to it. We’re all a bit different and thats great.

And I think this is the perfect place to post.

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I love watching cocks cum in porn. To see that in real life would be amazing. I fantasise about wanking a cock, sucking a cock and making them cum…but I have not attracted to men at all :thinking:

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Yeah, in all of our watching bi mmf porn together, watching it alone as well as gay porn and telling gf I really want a bi mmf experience with her myself, we both dont look at me as bi. I dont see myself in a relationship with a guy nor do I want to, I dont look at guys and think “cor, hes hot”

Its just the sexual side of it for me. The naughtier the better

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As a pansexual, i is mostly the feelings.

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no labels. Just do what you like.

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I never had it done to me by a guy but I know I’d cum like a geyser.

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The funny thing is, I don’t fancy a man doing it to me! I only want to do it to another man​:thinking:

I suppose that shows it’s just a sexual fantasy for me. But I do think it’s great for others to enjoy all genders in a warm and sensual way​:smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Thats how I try to look at things

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