I love erotic massage but get too sleepy to continue – help

[Nikolass]

Hey everyone,

I need some advice.

I travel a lot for work in the UAE. By the time I get to my hotel, I’m mentally done from heat and work. So I’ve gotten into the habit of booking erotic massages to unwind.

Here’s the problem.

The massage works so well that I get too relaxed. Like, eyes closing, breathing slow, almost falling asleep relaxed. And then when it’s time to actually have sex, I’m just not there anymore. Zero energy. I want to, but my body says no.

I’ve tried switching the order – sex first, then massage. But then I’m not relaxed enough during the massage because my mind is still racing from work. It doesn’t work either.

Is this a common thing? Does anyone else struggle with getting too sleepy from the massage part?

So what’s the trick? How do you enjoy both without the massage killing your drive? Shorter massage? Different technique? Coffee before? (Feels weird.)

Any tips would help. I’m tired of wasting half the booking being a sleepy mess.

Thanks

[JGood]

I find mixing it up works relax but then entice as you go, play with the many different pleasurable areas of the body while massaging, you may need to highlight them to the person massaging you.

Also full body massage is a possibility (the massager using their entire body to massage you.

[AJSTAR]

Sounds like the massage is doing its trick as is meant to relax you completely the sex is just an added bonus that isn’t always needed!

[Wood-Nymph]

Why dont you just book a massage and save the sex when you get home to your partner?