My OH has given me oral while im on, only if i had a tampon in though.
Erm, ok, I may be about to gross y'all out here, but my OH gives me oral when I'm tampon-free. The taste doesn't really bother him at all. I always make sure I am freshly showered though, fresh blood smells ok but old blood smells awful. He doesn't do it often, but we both find most aspects of messy menstrual pretty arousing anyway.
There are some things we won't do, though. You get some guys who (and I can't believe I'm typing this) like sucking used tampons, or being masturbated using bloody pads like a sleeve. Oh. Sweet. Jeebus. No thank you.
My OH has given me oral while im on, only if i had a tampon in though.
Erm, ok, I may be about to gross y'all out here, but my OH gives me oral when I'm tampon-free. The taste doesn't really bother him at all. I always make sure I am freshly showered though, fresh blood smells ok but old blood smells awful. He doesn't do it often, but we both find most aspects of messy menstrual pretty arousing anyway.
And you're worried about a little bit of very dilute wee (potential) in female ejaculate? You need to apply this logic to your squirting and you'll be sorted!
There are some things we won't do, though. You get some guys who (and I can't believe I'm typing this) like sucking used tampons, or being masturbated using bloody pads like a sleeve. Oh. Sweet. Jeebus. No thank you.
My OH has given me oral while im on, only if i had a tampon in though.
Erm, ok, I may be about to gross y'all out here, but my OH gives me oral when I'm tampon-free. The taste doesn't really bother him at all. I always make sure I am freshly showered though, fresh blood smells ok but old blood smells awful. He doesn't do it often, but we both find most aspects of messy menstrual pretty arousing anyway.
And you're worried about a little bit of very dilute wee (potential) in female ejaculate? You need to apply this logic to your squirting and you'll be sorted!
There are some things we won't do, though. You get some guys who (and I can't believe I'm typing this) like sucking used tampons, or being masturbated using bloody pads like a sleeve. Oh. Sweet. Jeebus. No thank you.
Remember, kids! Fresh = acceptable, old = FAIL.
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Hee hee I wasn't worried about it, I was merely pointing out that I think it has wee in it, I only freaked out a little because I couldn't tell what it was! There's peeing on your partner for funsies, and then there's just having a complete pansy for a bladder. I don't mind the fact that I might be peeing on him, just a little advance warning from my bladder would have been nice! Silly bladder! Luckily I am thoroughly depraved enough to accept all bodily fluid exchanges. (Well, not all, I do have some limits!)
But yeah, EXTREME messy mentrual fetish ain't quite so arousing to me. I haven't stumbled across much porn with it in, but there's plenty in the filth-box that is Literotica. There are fetishes I didn't even know existed until I started frequenting that site!
Another point to consider:- where has the idea that menstrual blood is "bad" or "dead" come from? I haven't seen anyone mention it here (hopefully we are all more sensible!) but there is a school of thought in Fetishland that menstrual blood is somehow dirtier than other blood, and that it could actually make your partner ill! Am I being naive in thinking that that's utter swollocks?
Strange, the old wives tales some people still believe!
As far as I am aware, it is no more harmful than any other blood although I don't think it's as sterile as blood straight from a cut - it's mixed in with discharge which is the vagina's way of cleaning itself so it's bound to be not 100% sterile....still going to be pretty clean though. The menstrual fluid isn't just blood. The endometrium is made up of epithelial cells attached to a basement membrane and connective tissue with a rich blood supply. To trigger "bleeding", the body cuts off oxygen to the endometrium causing the cells to die and fall away from the uterine walls.
I can't quite find any information of EXACTLY what is in the menstrual bleed but I have a million books upstairs that may have the info in so I will look later and get back to you
We have no problem with making love with each other while my Gorgeous girl has the painters in. She is very horny about 3 days before, and gets even hornier during her week.
We're both happy to continue our adventures as normal, and yes, that includes me giving her lots of oral, though I have to admit it does clog my beard up a little.
We try to take the normal precautions with regard to the soft furnishing, but other than that, nothing else changes.
Mind you, there have been a couple of occassions after particularly good active love making when we've both looked like a couple of extras from a 'slasher movie'.
it all depends on how horny we both are, and of course the heaviness of the bleeding, luckly fiona doesnt suffer from major pains n cramps from her period and there very rarely heavy. i did at one stage be quite grossed out by the thought of sex at that time of month but it doesnt bother me so much now
As a male, I'm scared to watch that when its under this thread.
You and me both. For me periods will forever be blow job week as I don't like the thought of the blood and my girlfriend wouldn't feel comfortable with intercourse during it either. Nothing wrong with doing it if both of you are okay or into it though.
i used to think it was weird, but thats just cos my period was so heavy it made me really ill (sorry about the TMI) but i am on a new pill and it makes it so light that its just like spotting and sex is totally fine, my boyfriend is too horny to say no haha.
As a male, I'm scared to watch that when its under this thread.
It's safe. And hilarious! Love Red Dwarf. And reminds me of the creepiness of the Always ad: "Have a happy period" my foot, how about you have a punch in the face!
I really don't like it, even find it hard to play by myself during it. Completely irrational, but it just creeps me.
I have done and loved it. It proved to be a real turn on fo both of us. My last girl friend,however, wouldn't let me go anywhere near her when she was at that tme of the month.