I don't understand why this has been such a difficult road for us. We've been battling this for years and for the most part we had stayed positive and hopeful. But as we progressed through it I've learned that there is so many others going through the same thing. I've sat in the waiting areas for whole days with my daughter and him to accomplish the simplest of tasks for the filing and processing. I now understand how horribly the US treats immigrants and it makes me sick to my stomach. I will be so grateful once I can wake up next to him and not have to worry about him being taken away. I feel so terrible at the moment. Just feeling the fear that he has and seeing how this news has broken him makes the pain so much unbearable. No part of this has been easy or enjoyable. It's so hard to find people who support us and not try to tear us apart. I can not express how much it means to be sent so much positivity. I'm so happy that I have opened up about this. You could not believe the hate we have been put through because of where he was born. At this point I feel like I could just snap.
May I ask you where was he born? Not because it makes a difference in this case, but out of simple curiosity. Hugs to all three of you.
He was born in mexico and was brought over when he was 1
Caramba, you've got yourself a latin lover! 
Oh yes 😽
And a very good one at that 😋
I fail to see how people Can even think about separating a decent family man from his family. You have my full support Kat. I think it's disgusting what they're doing. X
This is frankly disgusting. We are supposed to be living in a modern world and yet this sort of thing is happening.
How can spliting up a family even be considwered ? I'm truly baffled
My heart goes out to you all and I can only offer my words of support and comfort. I really hope that this can eventually be resolved and you can all coninue to live your lives with each other in a country where you obviously belong xxx
Thank you both.
I don't understand it at all either. To be honest the system just all around sucks from what we have experienced. I'm hopeful that maybe just maybe we come somehow afford a lawyer or they just allow him to stay for now. I really hope they do. He has never done anything wrong. The man hasn't ever been in trouble in his whole entire life. I just don't understand it at all. Believe me they will not be able to take him easily from me. I will always fight for him. To think there are people in this world that work solely to separate people from their loved ones. It's just sick.
Gosh I am short for oards. Its unbelievable in a modern world like this and in a country that believes in liberty and freedom .
Just hope you can get this sorted .
As an update we have recieved our notice in the mail and sadly it says that we may not file an appeal. He is still with us thankfully and we have not heard if they are going to send him away. I've been reading on it and if I got the right sort of information they are supposed to send us a notice if he is to be deported. This would make it a bit easier so that if it does happen we can plan for it and I wouldn't need to worry about my daughter having to see someone take him.
I will hopefully be able to get in touch with a lawyer that will take on our case and work with us through payments. I am a bit scared. With absolutely no money saved and living paycheck to paycheck I am hoping we can work through this.
And may I ask what the motivation is behind the denial in the letter?
We simply didn't have enough evidence they said. Although we sent in his shot records and his school records along with his records proving he was the father of our daughter along with marriage records. They just want month by month paperwork in his name and we don't have that much we've sent in everything we possibly could think of.
We sent in pretty much enough to prove that he has been here since he was one but since we did not have much in his name after his graduation of high school other than his proof of paternity and marriage liscence we were denied. Although I did send a testimonial stating we have lived together since our last year of high school. Hopefully there is still a chance he can at least earn a work visa to where he can stay legally within the US.
I hope things work out. It's wrong IMO because he only lived there for a year did you say? Either way he's never been in any trouble and I dont see why they would do that
I don't either, he has never gotten in trouble and has lived here since he was one. If it weren't for the fact he was born in mexico his life would be so much simpler. We are going for a consultation with an immigration lawyer next week who will hopefully take on our case and will have better news for us. It will be hard to get through this and we will have to live on the bare minimum for a while but as long as we get to a point where he will be free to be here and work legally it will be worth it. I can not wait for the day when he finally can do what he wants without worry.
This is unbelievable and dam right stupid!! There has to be some other way to have your case reviewed. Can this not get picked up by a news channel over there or some sort of TV production that highlights your case and probably hundreds more of the same in your position!!
You have to get this out there and heard what's happening to peole like your good self, you don't deserve all this shit! x