I'm new here and I'm sorry for opening with a request for advice but I do plan to stay!
I have been messing around with anal play for a couple of years but only recently been taking it seriously. I have managed to stretch my arse to just over 2" wide but I seem to have hit a brick wall so to speak. I can only take up to about 4.5" in length so I am very limited with what toys to buy too and haven't found any short but wide toys.
I have purchased the Doc Johnson ace of spades (3" diameter) to work up to but I can't get any bigger than a 2" diameter ish. I have tried using an inflatable butt plug but I just get too full and push it out before it's pumped up enough to stretch me on the way out.
I was just wondering if anyone has any recommendations of toys to purchase or tips if I'm doing it wrong for stretching out the width of my arse not the depth... unless I can do depth as that would be great!