We have been talking about it for a while. We were both keen on the idea but not to sure how things would work. Wedecided to sign up on a swingers site and met someone on there. Lots of guys saying yes but we were fussy about what we wanted.
We picked out one guy who we felt comfortable with and chatted online for a few weeks. We were not going to rush it and make a mistake. Once comfortable we met up with him at a pub for our first face to face meeting. We met a few more times and chatted quite a bit getting to know each other better.
The first sexual encounter was about 6 weeks after our first chat online. I never went all the way the fist time, just a bit of kissing and touching, planed that way to see how we felt about it afterwards befor going to far. A week later was the 2nd time we went a bit further, giving oral and hand jobs bringing each other to orgasm. We agreed that I would do (progress things) it at my own pace.
I was brought up with 'sex is something special that should be between husband and wife only' It took me a while to get my head around that doing the cuckolding (or a threesome) does not make me a cheap. All I can say is take it slow and make it clear that you are not expecting her to sleep with lots of different guys. Let her set the pace.
Hi there. It was better than i thought it would be, I was so turned on. It is not something that we are doing often (for example on a weekly basis) it's more of a every now and then.
The way that your going about it seems the right way. I must admit its hubby's fantasy and I was a bit shocked at first, but now it's a complete turn on :D I sexy a guy (who knows all about my hubby) and he loves it. It's now just finding the right person to take it further. It's always really good to know other ppl's experiences with this :) x
I have watched my wife have sex with a man that was very well endowed he was 9 inches in length and 2 and a quarter inches thick.
She realy enjoyed his cock and she had 3 vaginal orgasms she also let him ejaculate inside her due to the heat of the moment this was not in our agreement.
I had a vasectomy after our second child so my wife got pregnant and although we discussed termination she had the baby and we have welcomed it into our family.
My wife was the one that wanted a well endowed man and i thought it would be a great turn on for us both, but stupidly forgot about contraception plus the fact that once my wife had tried a large cock she now would like to have one every so often to scratch the itch so to speak.
Be carefull what you wish for because if your marriage isn't strong it could lead to something you wouldn't like.
Our marriage was strong and still is plus my wife uses contraception now even though she is in her early 50s. I still encourage her to have her lovers because i love to watch and it keeps our sex life from being boring but it isn't the same for all couples.
If she doesn't want to do it then don't force her. She could end up resenting you. And although the idea sounds kinky now, do you really want to have the vision of her being tucked by someone else in your head for the rest of you life? What if she enjoys it more than with you? That wouldn't be nice knowing someone else satisfied her more.
There are lots of different things you need to consider before you consider trying it:..... If she agrees
I agree. You will be playing with fire and potentially this could damage your relationship . I would just keep it as a fantasy that will be unlikely to be acted out . Many of us have these .
Eugh, why do people keep commenting on posts from years ago -.-
I'm guessing forum rule no. 3 ;)
Yeah, we're always telling people to use the search bar instead of making new threads all the time, so that will mean old threads get dragged up from time to time. It's better than spamming the forums, I don't see the harm :)
Eugh, why do people keep commenting on posts from years ago -.-
I'm guessing forum rule no. 3 ;)
Yeah, we're always telling people to use the search bar instead of making new threads all the time, so that will mean old threads get dragged up from time to time. It's better than spamming the forums, I don't see the harm :)
I agree it is a weird quirk of this forum . Most other forums have riules against "necromancing old threads" which is whats happening here.
My own personal preference would be to start new threads , but then you get comments like "We have done this before" with an old thread link quoted.
Eugh, why do people keep commenting on posts from years ago -.-
I'm guessing forum rule no. 3 ;)
Yeah, we're always telling people to use the search bar instead of making new threads all the time, so that will mean old threads get dragged up from time to time. It's better than spamming the forums, I don't see the harm :)
I agree it is a weird quirk of this forum . Most other forums have riules against "necromancing old threads" which is whats happening here.
My own personal preference would be to start new threads , but then you get comments like "We have done this before" with an old thread link quoted.
I weren't meaning it in a bad way. .. it's just I always end up commenting things that are relevant to the present and look stupid... I was only joking guys.
I know what you mean kinks, it is confusing! I think it's easy for members to automatically go to the OP of an old thread and reply to that without realising the newer posts are at the end, I've made that mistake a few times x
Eugh, why do people keep commenting on posts from years ago -.-
I'm guessing forum rule no. 3 ;)
Yeah, we're always telling people to use the search bar instead of making new threads all the time, so that will mean old threads get dragged up from time to time. It's better than spamming the forums, I don't see the harm :)
I agree it is a weird quirk of this forum . Most other forums have riules against "necromancing old threads" which is whats happening here.
My own personal preference would be to start new threads , but then you get comments like "We have done this before" with an old thread link quoted.
I weren't meaning it in a bad way. .. it's just I always end up commenting things that are relevant to the present and look stupid... I was only joking guys.
No I didn't think any of us thought you did mean it in a bad way. Like Boo says it is confusing .
Like your new Avater by the way perhaps your sexiest picture yet.
How about get a large dildo instead? Not everyone is comfortable with threesomes and cukhold and if you're wife is not then you cant persuade her to be. A dildo would be better or watching porn? So it feels more exhibitionist for both of you? A lot of swinger clubs allow couples to join and watch what others do to without joining in but they are not for everyone.