Hi,
I’m male and have IBS, but enjoy playing with buttplugs and anal play, would love to try with the missus, but I am slightly worried, whenever i put in a buttplug for 20-30mins it tends to trigger me going to the loo, even though before hand there is no feeling of needing to go at all.
Anybody else with similar issues???
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100% I get the same thing, it’s why I’ve had to rule anal play off. I used to enjoy a bit of anal play but the regular loo trips, abdominal cramps and subsequent pruritis ani makes it not worth it. A shame really because I used to love it when I was in the mood but it’s not worth suffering for.
Maybe you can enjoy it but limit the wear down to say 10 mins at a time?
Was hoping to try pegging at some point but wary with buttplug issues, any body tried enema or anything before butt sex?
I tend to get IBS with extreme workouts at times or if consuming alcohol. I’ve read that douching/enemas can irritate some people in there. I’ve tried a simple douche and I don’t think it helped much to be honest. If I’m looking to enjoy some anal play, I try to eat a bit more fiber and a lot less food the day before. It could be nerves and excitement too. I also don’t attempt it if I have not gone recently (within the past hour or so).
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These are some good tips. I’ve not done anal play in a long time but I’m thinking of trying it again. I have a strange possible advantage if you can call it that, in the sense that I now have an ileostomy, so my bowels are not connected anymore. Long story short, I got bowel cancer (stage4) and needed emergency surgery last autumn. There’s been lots happening in my life in the past 8-9 months. But I’m thinking of trying anal play again. I also watched the series Dying for Sex featuring Michelle Williams, and I really enjoyed it. I’m hoping I can beat my cancer, but I know I have a long road of treatment ahead of me. Doesn’t mean I can’t have fun though when I feel up to it 
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