If you were to go back in time

Sex Tips & Talk
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If you could travel back in time and give your younger self one piece of sexual advice, what would it be?

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Hmm, probably… don’t get drunk at the Christmas Party and sleep with Jeremy[1]. Otherwise, I think I’m good :+1::joy:.

  1. We were both single at the time, but still a mistake as rather embarrassing at work. ↩︎

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Don’t say yes’ when my first boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend. He put me through a lot of pain and grief.

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Whatttt I never met you​:joy:

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Don’t be so picky with your partners, have more fun and don’t get married in your 20’s minimum

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That’s so true, I was the worlds oldest virgin (not really, but 25) but was so meek & mild never wanting to upset people or let them get the wrong impression of me, so I ended up having no fun. Also not wishing to get hurt, so never opening up to anyone had a bearing too.

Yet my partner was first married at 18 and the complete opposite !

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Have fun , laugh and enjoy life as it’s too short to waste.

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Stop being a prude and live a little.

I was a tee-total virgin until almost my 19th birthday. I wouldn’t even give a guy a handjob :joy:

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Talk to your sexual partners.

Sex is so much better when you’re both on the same page.

Took us 40+ years to find this out. All that time wasted.

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I’d probably tell my younger self not to stress so much about “doing it right.” Half the fun is in learning together, and confidence usually matters more than perfection.

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There’s a reason you don’t fit in and struggle to concentrate, it’s not you not trying. Give it time and you will find your people, amazing friends who ‘get’ you :purple_heart:

The world then didn’t understand neurodivergence (ADHD for me) and how it presented in girls rather than boys :disappointed_face:

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Not sexual: “just crack you damn egg! You’re trans and you know it; now stop being big sad and wishing… just do it!”

Sexual: “the descriptions you’re looking for is Bi attracted & Demi sexual/romantic; that’s why you feel you don’t fit in when others say… play that game of: ‘smash or pass’ with their favourite celebrities or what have you.”

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Mrs W here …..

I wish I had become more self-confident at an earlier age …. but then I wouldn’t have been me…. :thinking: errrrrr no, I think its best I stay as I was and am …. xx

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That waiting for the right person was the best thing to do

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Thing is would the younger you listen to the older you? Hell no…. :rofl:

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Probably “google fetlife” and could have got into it a bit earlier

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I had periods of trying to force myself to not be attracted to women. I was always much happier when I had sex with women occasionally as well as men. I would tell my younger self to just accept I need to fuxx women regularly, and get a boyfriend that allowed/encouraged it. Plenty do.

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Masturbate, God isn’t watching and if He was He would be proud you are enjoying his creation.

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Lately it’s something I’m struggling with​:slightly_frowning_face:

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God is watching all the time to look after you.

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