Me and my wife currently have the lifelike 8 inch dildo which has a circumference of 5 inches. We dont use it that often but when we do my wife loves it and always orgasms. It is thicker than me but she takes it well.
I love pleasuring her and watching her enjoy herself so I am now thinking of getting another lifelike dildo but thicker maybe circumference of 6 inches, so an increase of 1 inch.
She is happy with the current size but I would like to step it up and give her more pleasure.
Should I just go for it? Also interested to hear from the women on here will a 1 inch circumference increase be okay, will it be noticeable?
No you should not just go for it! What is wrong with you?
Your wife has told you she’s happy with the size you have, so unless it’s going inside your body then I’d suggest you stick to what your wife has consented to.
The fact that she’s told you that she’s happy with the current size, sounds like this conversation has come up already. If it has, then the seed has been planted, leave it alone now, she may decide herself that she wants to go bigger.
To be honest AJSTAR she didn’t even want to try a dildo when I suggested it and then I just bought it and used it on her when she was blindfolded once and she loved it and has never looked back. I have asked her before if she wants to try a bigger dildo before and she said she is okay with the one we got but I do think she would enjoy thicker one
If you have asked her before and she said she is happy with the one that you have got then i would leave it at that until she suggests otherwise, do nor push boundaries!! I would not be happy if my OH done that to me.
Firstly, everyone has the right to consent (including the right not to consent), regardless of how long you’ve been together and what’s happened in the past. Getting wet/getting hard/having an orgasm aren’t proof of consent.
Secondly, bigger does not automatically mean more pleasure. And even if you could 100% prove that it would, see the first point. Consenting to not receiving more pleasure is valid.
Stick to what you have, enjoy it and if the toy is bigger than you dont get it even bigger as she wont feel you when you finish her off.
Maybe introduce couples toys to enhance the mood.
It’s like buying underwear to meet your own male desires. It’s almost always met with a comment like “I’ll give you some ideas of what I really like”
My wife is petite but with 34 G breast. However she is able to take a 2/2" diameter dildo thats about 8" in circumference. I am able to get my had in her vagina up to my wrist. We have been working on anal fisting and have had greater sucess in using 3" D or 9.5" circumference dildo up her ass. The anal passage seems longer and I have been able to insert 10 " of this larger dildo up her ass. The key is practice, patience and lots of lube working slowly.
Not sure which dildo you have now but the Lovehoney Realistic Silicone Suction Cup Dildo 8 Inch might be a start. Im about to add my review of it and I measured it. The “head” is just over 5in and the area right past it exactly 5. At the mid point it is 5.75 and at the base is 6.
Having said that, I agree with u/JoCat that sticking to what she has said she likes is a good idea.
