Individuals with male anatomy - best position to use a dildo for solo anal play

Hello all,

I have a number of anal sex toys and thinking about purchasing a suction cup dildo for solo anal use (I’m a cismale).

I’ve seen a few threads where this has been discussed but thought I would start a new one to discuss this entirely.

What are the best positions people have found? I love the sensation of mimicking the act of being penetrated so would ideally stick it to the wall, get on all fours and ride back and forth but wondering if anyone has any better suggestions?

Happy anal play everyone!!

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I like to stick mine to the shower wall and use it in a standing position, and there is no need to worry about making a mess in there.

If you have a desk with legs wide enough for it I would recommend trying it there in the all fours position, as your feet can kind of get in the way when you try that one by sticking it to a wall or a cupboard door, ect. Putting it on top of the desk and riding it could be fun too.

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I used to sit on the edge of the bath with my feet inside. Could hurt your lower back after a while but it provides for quite a lot of movement and direction changes and is easy to clean.

Or lying on my back in bed with towels, paper towels etc under me. That’s only if I’m after specific p-spot play.

I very rarely stick them to the wall as I find they tend to move too easily and I can’t quite get the speed or angle I need.

I be more likely to stick it to an old food tray and then sit on it on a plastic covered chair. The food tray has handy handles on the sides.

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Have you tried kneeling on the floor and sitting on it? Maybe add a pillow under wrapped in a towel for some extra bounce padding!

A little wooden stool is a good support for a dildo, and literally squat down on it. You can put it next to the bed or coffee table and hold on and bounce till your prostate is content. If you’re advanced you can even anal DP with 2 dildos this way too.

Another god one I like to do it wrap my pillows in the liberator blanket attach the dildos to a strap on harness and suit up the pillows with the harness, and away you go.

I agree with @trial_and_error , I often use the shower wall while standing . Of note is my wife is disabled , so have several grab bars to steady myself with . Some suction dildos stay in place better than others . I also made an adjustable dildo holder mounted at the foot of our bed . It is adjustable for height and length . In this shot you can see just the suction mount and a tiny bit of the shaft . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/members-photo-uploads/257652/70

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I used to have a laptop screen raiser that was pretty sturdy and used to place that on top but had to get rid of it! My only thought was that it hurt my knees… maybe should have used on the bed

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That looks amazing! Need to get something similar for myself

I am way off using 2 - can just about fit one in!

Yes! The bed is a great place for added cushioning