Is a hands free orgasm possible for men?

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When pegging my husband he has experienced a hands free orgasm. He has been on his back with his legs in the air and his penis flaccid. He kind of oozes cum but the orgasm is mind blowing is how he described it.

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My personal first handsfree was using a masturbation sleeve and putting a bullet inside it on the underside of my…

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Have only experienced it once, but been close a number of times.

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I used to have lengthy aneros sessions that brought me so close to hands free ejaculation but never managed to get over the line. But the journey has brought blissful “dry” orgasms and litres of pre-cum which i drink every drop of.

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Expensive, however if you are looking for hands free fun, a fucking machine is a great choice. Definitely recommend spending the money on a higher quality one versus some of the cheaper junk available.

They can be used with various masturbation cups/sleeves for penile stimulation and are also alot of fun for anal penetration and prostate stimulation.

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I tried today for over an hour. After doing the OMG course, I can see the similarities in the importance of rhythm, position and mapping the sensitive areas. I tried a cage to help focus away from the cock and concentrate on the prostate. It helped a little bit, I tried using the high roller with different settings.

A consistent speed seemed better once warmed up though I did appreciate the novelty of the more random / rhythmic settings. It felt like there were times I got close but then lost it. I listened to some great meditations from literotica to keep in the mood and tried switching to a metal dildo instead at the end which was better, but sadly timed out.

Question on using massagers where its held in rather than used manually, how do you manage your breathing / PC muscles? Is it contract on the inhale or exhale?

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I have hands free orgasms when my wife pegs me. Rarely I get hard and shoot cum. It usually happens when I’m flaccid. It starts with really strong waves of pleasure that makes every hair on my body stand up. I start dribbling cum, and then it just hits me. I end up with what feels like convulsions, and extreme feelings from head to toe.

This happens probably once in every 3 sessions. When it does, my wife goes crazy and starts really hammering me. A few times I’ve had more than one, when she refuses to stop

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I have body orgasms (no ejaculation) from pegging, nipple stimulation and even just sucking and deep throating the dildo.

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I have got incredibly close, pre-cum leakage with a prostate massager on a few occasions, needed a bit of manual intervention to get me over the edge.

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I have sucessfully got there hands free with the use of massaging shower head on the frenum area. Water temperature, pressure and location play a factor but I have achieved this multiple times. I have not yet gotten there via prostate stimulation and OH has yet to try the pegging harness on me. More fun to cum (ahem), I’m sure :smiling_face_with_sunglasses:

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Hands free O is certainly achievable and having experience such a powerful handsfee O I am constantly needing more.

It takes time.

I used a long handled dildo. This made it easier to manoeuvre on to my P spot. Once there I closed my eyes and really zoned in to the the pleasure pulses and concentrated on how they were getting more powerful. As the built up it felt more like I was going to pee. Clearly I wasnt so thinking through that and riding the waves lead to an almighty, shuddering orgasm.

Build up to it, plan ahead and do a bit of edging beforehand and keep at it. It takes a few attempts

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It’s certainly achievable but it can depend on your mindset and what sensations can get you off.

For me the top ways to go really handsfree:

No touching of my penis needed:

Scent Play.

Listening to amateur audio only sex/masturbation sounds.

Knowing I’m getting off a partner while I’m fingering her or giving her oral.

My imagination just closing my eyes and thinking about sexual things associated with a person. (Not a easy one if there is alot going on around me)

Writing real erotic situations to someone or reading theirs, but there has to be some kind of connection between us.

Toys:

Sitting on my LH mains wand

My vibrating cock ring activated with a button, or phonecalls and text messages can set it off.

Different vibrations can get me off like a washing machine on spin.

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For hands free orgasm I love to use Lovense gush. Getting hard first is best but you can start while still soft. I have 2 patterns that I use for a slow build up until my body convolutes to orgasm.

you can just lay there with your eyes closed and enjoy the vibes until explosion.

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Hubby did once after he was circumcised. We couldnt play with him or have sex for the first 6 weeks after he was cut. One morning we were lying in bed together with the covers off admiring his penis, he was desperate for me to play with it but all i was doing was holding onto the base of it. His penis was twitching like mad and his cum just started to slowly trickle out of his head and over my hand.

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A few times while giving my wife oral, I have spontaneously cum. No touch required. The scenario is just so damn sexy, it tips me over the edge. Love it

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Yes, hands free orgasms are possible for men.

Not many are able to, but some can, it happens so it’s definitely possible.

I read most replies but I didn’t see PGAD listed either.

For those who suffer from PGAD (both men and women may have this), they will not only have a hands free orgasm, they will have many each day, sometimes as many as 100 in a day.

Now, that isn’t good, it’s way more of a curse than a blessing. There is info and articles out there online about PGAD. It wasn’t recognized until 2001. Out of those who have it, more women have it than men, but some men have it too.

People with PGAD will most definitely have hands free orgasms, however they aren’t wanted. One doesn’t want to have their 70th orgasm of the day and then their 71st and so on.

In many ways, it’s debilitating. Why? For many reasons. First, they are unwanted and they aren’t related to arousal. One may be doing normal tasks, working, driving, be in a meeting and just have an orgasm or 4.

And a key reason why this isn’t good as having an orgasm won’t relieve the arousal in the person. The orgasm won’t relieve the symptoms.

Oh, I should say that PGAD stands for Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder.

One is pretty much always aroused, even when they do not want to be. It’s unwanted.

I get this isn’t exactly what the post was looking for (PGAD as a response), but still the question was “Is a hands free orgasm possible for men?”

And the answer to that is a definitive yes, even for men who do not have PGAD.

PGAD isn’t well known, many think it would be “wonderful” to suffer from that. Some folks say it would be great to orgasm 50 or more times each day. No, it isn’t and it wouldn’t be for them either.

Again, the key is that it is unwanted.

Here are but a few blurbs on this, there is so much more info online of course.

  • Unwanted Arousal: Unlike typical sexual response, PGAD causes persistent, unwanted, and uncontrollable sensations of arousal or genital engorgement.

  • Orgasms Do Not Relieve Symptoms: While some may experience temporary relief, orgasms often fail to stop the arousal, leading to cycles of multiple, spontaneous orgasms within hours or days.

  • Physical and Emotional Toll: The condition causes pain, tingling, and extreme discomfort in the pelvic region, often leading to anxiety, depression, and social isolation.

“Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) is characterized by symptoms of persistent, spontaneous and unwanted genital arousal without sexual interest or thoughts which can cause significant impairment in psychosocial well-being and daily functioning. PGAD is still an under-recognized clinical entity. There are not yet clear evidence-based treatment recommendations.”

“Persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) is a clinical condition that is currently not fully understood. Affected individuals experience persistent genital arousal symptoms without sexual desire, which seriously affects their daily life and work”

“There are differences in symptoms among different cases. However, the characteristic of consistent recommendations is the persistent or recurrent, unwanted or invasive, annoying genital arousal sensation, which may also include other types of sensations such as twitching, itching, pain, etc. These feelings may be accompanied by an uncontrollable orgasmic experience and/or an excessive number of orgasms. These feelings are not related to the subsequent sexual interest, thoughts, or fantasies.”