Bigger is better when it is the numbers on my payslip. Otherwise it's not important.
I've got about a 6" piece, not particularly big but quite thick girls seem to enjoy sex with me, problem is keeping it hard enough for a long time....
I guess im half and half as my partners about 8" and 5" girth and he is just the right size for me, shameful as im a bit of a size queen but overall i love his girth.
However saying that.. i have had two partners who were 9" and it was a little too much, every time we had sex i found that 50% of the time id end up with a bladder infection or internal bruising/tears. Im not sure if this is due to the fact im quite small but for the best of the time i couldnt enjoy "rough sex" for fear of getting an infection or brusing as id be sore for a good day or two after.
I think its an interesting discussion, much like is tighter better for men. I agree to each their own and there must be a point where big is too big, or tight is to tight. I think there is a happy medium.
I agree LSB, I have been with a guy who had a massive one & it was awfull, current oh size is perfect big enough in fact its a perfect fit for me, I think he has a very good size but he thinks it is average, I disagree but it is also not too big!! lol perfect.
This is difficult to answer for me. The biggest i've had lengh wise was 8" and was quite thick also and it was great, sometimes we had to go slow to begin with because even though i get very wet it could have hurt.
The smallest would probably have been about 1-3" and it was terrible. I've found that i prefer men with penis's between around 5-7"
My current partener has i would guess average so between 5 & 6" maybe a little over 6 depending how hard he is (this is a guess and he's never measured it before) And his penis seems to be perfect for me. Perfect size lengh and definitely perfect thickness, fills me just right. I've only had an orgasm with my current OH during sex. And he isn't exactly the best lover i've had (still good, very good)
I think personally that bigger is better if the penis is smaller than 3" but is a penis is too big for you then that's just painful and so it isn't better. An average size tends to be better i think.
The girls I've been with, or female friends, some defenitely prefer a big thick woowoo. But everyone is different.
So you have had 1 guy at 8” and 2 guys at 9”?
How many guys have you been with lol i thought them numbers are rare
Bigger is not always better, as it was with my coworker I was sleeping with. She rewarded me with a blowjob for staying after work and helping her the set up for her presentation the next day. As soon as she pulled it off my jeans she had to have it. She Was in a relationship but coming home with my cum on her breath she kissing her bf was a big turn on for her. I thought sex with her (she loved doggie style) was amazing (esp her BJ’s) but when she moved away and we chatted she said sex with me was always painful. I was too big for her. I was so disappointed at hearing that. She loved sucking me off but intercourse was too painful for her.
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Bigger may not always be better. My wife says she would rather be with a guy who was too big than too small. A woman can be stretched out over time, but too small is too small. 3.5 and under is just too small for her. Her perfect size would be 6.5 if she could pick a penis size for me.
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Samantha here. A cock of 8 or 9” is fairly uncommon but not as rare as you may think. Im not proud to say that I have slept with around 50 men. My long term fuck buddy was a fraction over 9”, my now partner is 8” and id say iv had another 4 or 5 as big as his. Not measured them all obviously.
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With a guy who is too small extenders can be used. A guy who is too big cant be made smaller. Unless operated on. Yes the woman can stretch given frequency and time but once she is used to it then she is going to want that full feeling more and more.
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Wow sounds like you have had sex with more men over 8 inches than under 4 inches and potentially under 5 inches. Some woman might call you lucky especially since you seem to thoroughly love the bigger cocks. Glad you are happy with your hung man.
Samantha here. Iv always thought the average size was about 6” based on my own experience. Obviously I haven’t measured most of them so its all guess work. Biggest isn’t always best. Yea the guy with the 9” cock was very good in bed but not just because he was big.
Some guys who were on the larger side would cum in under 5 mins. Some guys who were on the smaller side knew how to use it, had great stamina and gave me lots or orgasms.
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I would have thought with having some long time lovers who were large including your current that you would rather be with men with large cocks and not have such positive remembrance on guys who were not hung at being great in bed in your past.
Oh I dont think there as rare as all these polls and stats say they are, and you are living proof of that, id take real life experience over some online survey anytime
Thanks for the truthful comment xo
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Samantha here. Good sex is memorable. One of the most memorable shags from my past was with a guy who had the smallest penis iv probably ever had. It was only a one off but I let him take my anal cherry because he was small. It still hurt abit but felt good. He was also very good with his tongue.
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Everything I’ve read from reputable sources puts global average about 5.5" long and 4.25" girth as the average with a pretty standard bell curve from there, so your experience of average is not far off. I do wonder if your sample size is self-selecting to skew slightly above average related to being the type to put themselves out there? But making assumptions about the nature of the relationships, so could be talking out my ass.
I don’t suppose toys are even remotely the same as real cocks, but my really only occasionally has any interest in our biggest dildos and her go-to toy is a tad smaller than me. I always say that knowing sex is off the table the day after using our big toys and that we regularly have anal without too much fuss leaves me feeling pretty good about what I’m packing!
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Samantha here. Yes, you may be correct. I didnt sleep with guys and ask to measure there cocks. It was always the larger guys that would brag and show off by measuring it. Usually in the way of a dick pick.
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Was he always going to be a one time or did you not go back because he was small. Even if you had a memorable night. As small myself, I have made sure I worked on my oral so women remembered me for my oral not my lack. Willing to go down before and after sex to give her pleasure especially if my penis did not cause an orgasm.