Hi everyone I just have a simple Question I need help with and that question is coconut oil female friendly as my other half is very sensitive to things like oils and lubes even what goes in the bath
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It is for some, others find it abhorrent. 
There’s a good (though slightly old) blog about it here:
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I love coconut oil.never used it during sex though but might have used a lubricant with it in- the oil based organic one lovehoney sell? I cannot remember the name or for sure if coconut was one if the oils used in the ingredients though. As the article mentions, it is anti microbial and a fairly neutral oil to use, its also moisturising and isn’t classed as allergenic. I wouldn’t hesitate to use it personally and I’m always all for a natural alternative as I hate using products with toxins such as parabens, formaldehyde and glycols on my skin let alone near my most sensitive and intimate parts.
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I wasn’t thinking about using it as a lube but seeing article that ian posted given me the thought it was more for massage and the pussy needs massaging as much as legs and arms
Ah, you said ‘female friendly’ so I assumed you meant lube. But yeah, it’s also skin friendly for most too. 
(Though you may want to test a small patch of skin first to check before slathering her in it ).
Here’s a blog post on using coconut oil as a lube, it lists the pros and cons:
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I would say yes because you can consume it, get virgin coconut oil as it organic. In warm water coconut oil turns from a solid to an oil. We use it a lot in cooking as a pan oil and in beauty products for the hair. And the best of all it smells amazing!
I’ll file that one away for the future.
I would add that the anti bacterial, anti fungal and anti viral properties can be a good thing for some people but they can over correct in some other people, causing things like yeast infections etc.
Small patch tests are definitely the way to go.
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I use coconut oil for many things, face and body moisturiser and for lubrication and while I’ve never had a adverse reaction everyone is different .
I agree this is probably the best way to find out
I would add…it’s ‘Bounty’ taste lovely. 
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Yes, the taste is a bonus ! 
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Gives me another thought on it as my wife hates the taste of cum Jensen why she doesn’t swallow maybe I could get her to use coconut oil while giving a bj that way she should taste coconut
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It’s probably a bit oily for eating. I think you’d be better off changing your diet. But even then I wouldn’t say it was a sure thing, as some people just don’t like cum in their mouths (I’m one ).
This is still pretty much all I know about changing the taste of cum:
In my experience it is generally female-friendly in terms of hair, massage, cooking , lube etc - but some people get a reaction to it, so I guess you’d have to try it and see.
I don’t use it on my face as I read that other things e.g. shea butter are less pore-clogging. Everyone is different.
In terms of oral sex, have you tried flavoured lube? Sliquid do a good variety and their lube is water based with aloe vera - another ingredient often described as female-friendly.
I have sensitive skin and Sliquid lubes suit me just fine - the flavoured ones are subtle rather than overpowering and artificial.
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Though flavoured lube will also not change the taste of semen.
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Yeah, but if @carzy’s OH is reluctant to offer a bj then it might help if it is just a taste issue. She could finish by hand? @carzy - can you have a one to one chat with your wife and ask about her preferences? See what she like to do?
Oral tends to be during foreplay for us, so we break off before that and move onto other frolics…
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Thanks for advice spoke to her and it is just a taste issue she has no problem sucking it’s just she hates the taste but she is willing to give it a go she has looked on love honey site and found yummy cum and is wondering if it actually works
Fantastic 