After seeing what a delicious cocktail of people, experiences and likes/preferences there is here, I’ve been wondering when others first realised what they are into. However this seems to have been asked before.
So, maybe more specifically, what things that you are into now, were you once very much not into? What changed your mind?
Whether it’s multiple people, anal, bondage, cross dressing, getting messy, toys, porn, anything.
I’ve edited your title to make it clearer 
Thank you @MsSubExperimenter
This forum gives access to topics that you’ve not even heard of never mind considered trying. Coupled with the excellent products that LH offer, our time has been enhanced even at our advanced age.
Under-bed restraints, hogtie and cuffs etc have provided lots of fun for both of us. Ten years ago, if you’d said we’d have that stuff and also a flogger & paddle then I’d have laughed !
My good lady loves buying from the lingerie offerings as it makes her feel good to look nice, and has boosted her self-esteem, (sexy underwear doesn’t do much for me, but I’m happy if she is).
Using toys. Never used them before, but it was a necessity due to hubbys ed, which started in january of last year. He was afraid i would go elsewhere because he could not penetrate me so we looked on the lh website for toys, which is where we found cock rings and penis pumps as well as vibrators. The cock rings and penis pump helped him a bit as well as professional help and medication. We still use toys on me and him but without them i would not have discovered i was multi orgasmic, which was a bonus 
Ours is definitely being more open with each other.
For example if we solo play, we will mention it rather than hiding it.
I am also more relaxed about my wife using toys. I understand the need to use them more now than I did before as I never really spoke about things like that.
Absolutely an eye opener. I’ve lost myself for hours here looking through different topics and and posts. Reading all the responses and advice has piqued my interest massively on a number of things I hadn’t thought I’d consider.
I love that you’re finding solutions here, and not letting the problem beat you both. It’s an incredibly sensitive issue that can have such an adverse effect on someone’s confidence, mental wellbeing and relationships. To have a partner like yourself being so supportive is priceless.
And quite frankly, that is a big ol’ bonus! 
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I don’t know why my wife and I aren’t the same. We both enjoy toys, we talk about all kinds of sexy and kinky stuff, yet somehow we’ve never really spoke about our solo play. Personally I’d find it a huge turn on.
I was a long time lurker before I posted, but one thing I got in to whilst just reading was penis sleeves. I’m perfectly satisfied with my penis, as is my wife, but there’s something so exciting about introducing a different sensation to sex every now and then, but it still being sex between us.
I imagine they’re actually pretty fun to use. Maybe something I should explore.
Being more comfortable in myself and realising i don’t need to be self conscious or overthink enjoying sex with my oh.
Also butt plugs and anal. I have learnt alot here from everyone’s experience and advice so thanks everyone
Suffice to say swinging was not on our radar before I started to read threads on the forum.
Not sure there’s anything new I’ve gotten into but rather it’s opened my eyes to some stuff plus my curiosity to try various toys! I never thought I’d own a glass or metal toy, yet there they be in my collection and I totally love them!!!
Yeah I’m definitely with you on those first two. And although I’ve dabbled, since joining the forum my desire to explore butt plugs and anal and delve deeper has seriously grown. Pun intended! 
Everyone is so open to sharing experiences. It makes such a difference in considering something new.
The feel and sensation I can only imagine is really quite different, I love the idea of metal especially.
I’ve always had a problem talking dirty. I just didn’t know how. Until I asked here.
With the help of the forum I’ve put that little worry behind me and can often be found sending my OH into whorls of delight simply by whispering in her ear. Always good at a family dinner.
And I bought my first steel cockring because of the forum, quite possibly because of @AJSTAR s recommendation though I can’t remember exactly now. Its all a haze.
Giving my girlfriend anal pleasure with my tongue like she wants me to while going down on her. This is something that I have NEVER! did with a woman out of all the relationships I have been in.
Oh that’s a happy woman right there then