Not a big sample to choose from. Only two. But, yes, unquestionably my wife is #1. We understand each other intimately which makes all the difference.
The previous girlfriend was over a relatively short period with probably only about 10 times that we had sex. Was great but far less intimate knowledge to play off.
@rockstar that sucks, dude, I hope you guys can keep your lines of communication open and resolve things happily for both parties. Fingers crossed from my corner of the world.
Absolutely. He’s very tender and passionate. It took a while for him to acknowledge that using sex toys isn’t replacing him and now he enjoys cock rings and masturbation sleeves.
He always makes sure I orgasm before him, he’s not at all selfish unlike previous long term relationships.
Has to be with my wife. Sessions have always been very hot and dirty. Although, I’ll admit, perimenopause is certainly making things harder for us. She’s a changed woman.
I had this one ex who only liked anal and was always on like me, chemistry was amazing.
Neither my first wife or my current wife were the perfect match for me . My current wife was pretty close , but her disabilities have kept her inactive for a long time . A particular girlfriend I had and I were about a perfect match sexually along with the fact she and I had multiple non sexual hobbies . Body building , outdoor activities like camping and fishing . She rode motorcycles before I met her , after getting together I bought her a motorcycle . I often wonder how my life would have been if she had said yes to my proposal .
My wife is the best by a mile. We were friends before we got together and had unbelievable chemistry from the very first time, and it’s only gotten better over the years. Her libido matches mine almost perfectly, we’re both open to try just about anything together and so far there hasn’t been anything that one of us liked that the other didn’t, and as time has gone on we’ve gotten better and better at pleasing each other. She’s often said if we wrote a smutty romance novel based on our sex life we’d have to tone it down or people wouldn’t believe it; after 16 years I can bring her to orgasm so fast and so often that it wouldn’t seem real if I wasn’t living it. She can also make me cum so hard I’m basically catatonic for a few minutes afterward.
I was debating this as a former lover was the kinkiest (facials, eating my saved up frozen on her food, drink etc) my current over is the only one who have deepthroated me, I can make make her cum so many times orally (still can’t fit my fatty into her) and is into BDSM. Even her kisses make me hard. So I’ll say my current lover is the best I’ve had and bonded sexually with
No but the person who I had the best sexual chemistry with was a horrible human being. My husband is an incredible lover and 100% ticks all the other boxes I desire and require in a relationship.
Honestly… yes my current partner is definitely the person I’ve had the best sexual chemistry with. There’s just something about the two of us that clicks — the attraction, the trust, the confidence and the way we can read each other without saying much.
I’ve been with other people before but nothing has quite compared to what we have now. The chemistry feels effortless, exciting and very hard to resist. There’s a certain spark between us that just keeps getting better… and honestly I wouldn’t trade it for anything