Hi all, slightly controversial question here, but just wondering whether or not your current partner/spouse is the person you have the best sexual chemistry with? My wife and I do have pretty good sexual chemistry but I’d say my ex prior to my wife is the person I’ve actually had the best sexual chemistry with…just wondered what others thoughts and opinions are…
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My wife a thousand percent. While my libido is much higher, I know another woman wont make me sexually as happy.
Now that doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t like to have sex with another woman, but it makes me appreciate her so much more 
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Yes my husband is the one that I have the the best sexual chemistry. I have had a lot of boyfriends but only two prior to hubby where I actually had sex with. First one as much too big for me and he turned out to be a nasty piece of work, the other one was drunk most of the time and could not stay awake long enough to satisfy me. Pretty bad experiences really.
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I’m not falling for this trap. You almost got me.
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We’ve been married for 51 years and if you’d asked me last year I would have said definitely without a doubt but late last year, out of the blue, she said a couple of very hurtful things which have made me doubt that we were ever on the same page at all.
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Without a doubt, yes. There are times that we’re not entirely in sync, sure, but those times are far and few between.
I’m sorry to hear about your recent challenge, @rockstar. Hopefully the two of you can communicate through this and emerge stronger than ever.
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Absolutely without doubt - he totally gets me in all aspects
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You’re brave 
But to answer the question, yes Mrs C is the one who I have the best sexual chemistry with. She is the only one that I have been able to be 100% open with. When I mention something I want to try she never judges and is happy to give it a go to see if we like it.
We are both just so aligned in all aspects of sex and attraction. Even last night we were watching a show with a red headed dominatrix and I said she was hot. She quickly agreed and said she was definitely her type. It’s quite nice that we both tend to get the hots for the same women.
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Love this, sounds just like us.
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Samantha here. Well, i used to have a fwb that i kept going back to whenever i was single and in most cases, used to always think about at times even when in a relationship. He was into the same stuff as me in the bedroom and had a huge 9" penis!
Ben changed all that. When we have sex, whether a quickie or an all nighter, its off the scale. From the 2nd or 3rd time we had sex, he knew how to push my buttons. Nobody has ever made cum as much as him. The kind of sex that is addictive. He has brought out my experimental side and turned me into a right dirty bitch!
So the answer to your question is a definite yes
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Absolutely 
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Definitely! Just the right balance of being dominant but also letting me take control when I need to. Also open to suggestions and willing to experiment.
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Completely.
Wife is my one and only, so…
But also I’m completely satisfied with her and we’ve been partners in creating our desires and kinks and learning our bodies since we were 18. It’s hard to explain what this kind of coregulated chemistry feels like after 23 years. We hardly sleep when we’re apart. I can’t keep my hand off her when she’s ovulating - even a breath of her hair or the back of her neck is arousing.
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It’s hard for me to say, most of my partners and wife’s how been amazing, the last two are at the top, both different sexually. Things change with age and experience. The older I’ve got, the easier to talk about new sexual ideas.
If you asked me that 20 years ago, I would say for sure, that was during our high point of sex play. These days we do have sex, not as often as I would like, and the chemistry is not crazy hot. I am hoping we can find some ways to liven up things and return to more frequent and fun sex.
Without a shadow of a doubt, yes.
Our first time together was an eye opener for us both.
Also enjoyed exploring each others in those early years of being unable to keep our hands off each other.
There was the very commonplace dip after children, where communication also died for a while.
But if anything, the last year or two (both a touch either side of 40) have been the best yet, including more experimenting and opening up a bit more (I’ve always been the more open one who loves to talk, her less so).
And no signs of slowing down as things stand, very lucky I guess, and not taking it for granted.