Hey All,
Tempted to say happily married, well i am but the last while we have has issues in the bedroom.
My wife is./ has seems just to take a turn off sex or me or both.
She used to be quite horny a.d would initiate sex a.d we would have lots of foreplay.
Since end of 2023 it just seemed to all stop.
Zero oral i have given since 31.12.23 - none. And she will not allow.
There have been at least 2 instances where she has really caused me to doubt her.
One was we were out at a gig with brother.in law amd his.wife and a friend. Queen tribute act which was excellent.
My wife took a real shine to the lead singer and at one stage asked me to take a pic of them (her friend and herself with the freddy look a like)
Just as i was taking the picture.she turned and wispered in his ear.
I was so.mad as i thought this.was extremely disrespectful to me. As she and friend were winking at each other about the singer in his leather boxers.
Afterwards i wasent talking much.and she joked to everyone was i jealous.
That just made me more mad.
The.second was last april and we were away in poland with.same people. At a. Ar we all had a good few drinks and there was a young guy all chatty to her. I.paid.no.real attention as he was late 20’ a d my wife is 55. (And still looki g amazing, looks 10 years younger than her age) but as we all left i turned around a.d she had given him her phone. Only one reason in my mind - so he could send himself a
Essage from her social media. I looked at her a.d said - ARE YOU FOR F***ING REAL!
she was out the door straight away.a d all chatty to the others, i was so pissed off tho.
We all stopped at a shot bar a.d had one more and i just said im heading back to apartment.
She did.not speak.of it again.
But now she is never away from phone, ever.
Can i trust her. When she is.out with her friends? Is giving the phone to other men the norm. As this is all new now.
Im having serious doubts.
She.does.say she loves me etc anf has the odd moment where she is quite loving but they are getting further and further apart, and some of it is down to me as im so skeptical of her now.
Poi.ts to also consider is she is menopausal and has said this is affecting her?
But it does not explain the 2 above mentioned events.
No she.never goes on an overnight unless.its.a hens night and even if its a.weekend she.would.only ever.do one night. Plus.i.know the.people she.does be.with.and while i.would not trust most or.some of them if anything happened i would hear it back or would have by now.
Last night she spoke about another couple which we know are in a total sexless marriage. And she mentioned something about the guy being disrespectful to his wife and said how rotten it amd he was for doi g it, and all i could think of was “how hiprotical” my wife was in saying it to. me considering she has no issue doing it to me.
Please islf i could get some genuine takes on these instances and real pointers, should i be worried?
Thanks all.