I don’t often post or comment on the forum, I’m more of a secret lurker!! But, I just wanted to create a post to say to those chaps that are less endowed that the above is totally true!
I have a partner who is about 4" when fully erect but he gives me the most amazing f**ks just because of the way he thrusts into me. We’ve done various positions from the front and behind and never had a problem doing PIV. Very occassionally he’ll slip out but I’ve learnt not to bounce too high!
When we first got together he often made a big thing out of saying that he’s small, but I simply replied “yes, but you still satisfy me 100% and at least you can thrust as hard and balls deep as you like without fear of hitting my cervix and hurting me.” (The vagina is only about 5" long when aroused)
Hope this helps with confidence-boosting anyone that needs to hear it xx
I’m am only 5.5 inches and never thought I was small until watching porn and seeing some pics of other men. Never any issues with my wife or previous GF’s. Not that I am some expert love maker, but it’s how you use it, communication, knowing there is more than just penetration, confidence in yourself, you Just need to put it all together. Like I said, sex is way more than penetrating and going at it like crazed animals.
That’s good to hear. I’m also pretty small, at 4 inches hard and pretty thin.
We often visit naturist beaches and she gets more annoyed than me when I get the odd person giggling and pointing. Depending on various factors, soft I can vary from nothing at all to and inch or two. I’d prefer to be more of a shower than a grower. But it doesn’t grow that much in truth.
My wife would like me to be thicker and in truth I’d prefer to be at least average in size.
We’re both pretty open about my size, most of our friends have been with us at one time or another when there’s been some nakedness.
We both realise that there’s not much I can do and we’ve experimented with extenders. I must say that it’s been pretty mixed for me, but she enjoys it.
We both like doggy style and some of our role play involves me bending her over and taking her from behind. She tells me that previous partners have really sent her wild when taking her this way. But it’s often quite frustrating when we try, with me slipping out all the time. Is that something that works for you, if so, any tips please?
The porn performer average length is around 3” longer than the general population average (5.1-5.5inches) It’s partly because the extra length allows better access/angles for cameras in certain shots. Sexual positions are generally ‘opened up’ to favour a particular viewer experience over the porn performers’ pleasure.
Back in the real world: From my wife’s perspective, anything more than the first 5” is generally likely to cause unwelcome bumping against the cervix. Which sounds just as you’ve described, @Lil_MissNaughty
The point about average size being the ideal length for most women is well made. Mr average can penetrate right up to the hilt and go at it really hard. Whereas most porn stars never get too far in so as not to hurt the lady and usually thrust slowly almost posing rather than getting to work.
Speaking from experience Mr average can really go for it and satisfy a girl. My husband is above average and has to take care as he has hit my cervix a couple of times and it hurts. On the plus side he is quite girthy.
The worst thing you can do is watch porn to make you feel like it’s not big enough.
I’m sure the majority of men would like a 3rd leg as they say lol.
The wife laughed at me at 1st when i bought some cock rings, penis pump & herbal tablets but boy does it change the look on her face during sex, well worth investing for her / your pleasure
When my partner takes me from behind he does have to be more careful otherwise he will easily slip out. Small shallow thrusts work best, either done gently or with a harder push. He usually holds my hips too to make sure I don’t move too far forwards. Hope that helps x
I’ve always wondered how long the vagina actually is, so it was quite interesting to find out! And I’ve never seen it mentioned on the forum before. Like you say length looks great but you do have to be more careful.
You’re right there it is definitely how you use it and work on it with your partner,I used to worry I thought I was small at 4.5 ins when flaccid but luckily enough it gets just over 7 when hard, but regardless of size it is how you use it.
