Any links to good kink lists / quizzes for you and your partner to complete?
I am wanting to broach the topic of kinks with my husband a bit more and thought this may be a light hearted way of doing it.
I feel silly after all these years being more open about stuff like this but just think it is a confidence thing now that I am getting older and accepting myself sexually a lot more.
As @JoCat suggested Carnal Calibration is really well setup and is brilliant for this.
It allows you to answer alone, and it only shares kinks you are both intetested in, so you wont feel embarrassed if you said yes to one thing but your partner said no. They just won’t know about it.
I’ve always used bdsmtest.org as a kind of gold standard. It might not give you an idea of kinks to try but it gives you an idea of the roles you might like, and there are plenty of us here who will be more than happy to help and inspire you from there. Good luck, and have fun