Latex and chains!
Everyone has views of what kinky is. Personally I view kinky as being willing to experiment within your limits. This may be buying a sex toy or suspension. It is the thrill someone gets from using it rather than what it is or how 'kinky' it is.
kinky for me is something that I just dont "get" like dressing up as babies and furry animals.....dont see the sexual part at all just silly to me, but whatever floats your boat I suppose.
Kinky's definitely subjective. I'd also agree that most things only stay kinky the first time.
nothing. theres different tastes but I don't consider anything particuarly kinky as I can see with most the reasonings and logic behind things. There are the obvious ones I condem totally though.
the tastes I don't like and feel are too extreme for me does not mean I dont mind others doing it ( your kink is not my kink) these would be cutting,age play, pet play and urine/feaces.
Fluffbags wrote:
For me, kinky generally means "anything done for sexual pleasure and not just procreation" so that includes oral, anal, roleplay, dirty talk....well the list is long lol.
I am physically unable to procreate. Therefore, by this definition, I am necessarily kinky.
Accordingly, vanilla is the new kink. Rock on!
to be fair in SOME people views 'kinky' could be considered something sich as having sex outside the bedroom ... so it IS very very subjective .
For us, "kinky" is now anything we don't like - watersports, scat, BDSM, ie things we don't want to try. Agree the point about pushing boundaries, at first full-swap swinging was kinky as far as we were concerned, but now it's normal. Same goes for bisexual play, DP, DV, GBs, orgying and bareback swinging; all things we were curious about, tried, liked, and now do as occasional nice additions to our sex play. Some of our playmates think some of these are kinky, it's a very personal term.
the line between what may have been considered kinky and what may have been 'more traditional' has i think blurred over the past years with more access to anything from sex toys to online porn.
I may be wrong in this summation, but perhaps 20 years ago for example kinky may have been having/using toys, maybe nowadays being 'normal' is having 1-3 toys and kinky is having 23....who knows!
personally i think that there is another level beyond what i/we consider kinky - which for want of a better label is 'weird'......yeah one persons weirdness etc etc. We indulge in bondage play, have a variety of toys and furnitureso for us this is our kinkier side to sex, yet topics such as rape fantasies, dressing as babies isn't kinky its 'weird'. So my view - kinky is something that is within ones reach and that is something of potential interest, or perhaps where one can see the appeal to others even where it may be slightly beyond ones own boundaries.
KinkyFuckery wrote:
Compare to my friends they think i am kinky because i own sex toys and opening talking about them but to me thats normal my best mate calls me Kinky Bird lol . Dare i tell them all the other things i do tee hee . I enjoy sex and love making toys and what connection I have T & the things we do together would change that for the world kink or no kink x
This is so me :') Haha my friend's face the first time I came over with an AS bag was such a picture. She was horrified and fascinated at the same time LOL.
To me kink is something you really want to do, but wonder whether you should or not, or as someone else said "whatever I'm not doing!" It also depends on my mood as well!
I would like to experience a nice metal stiletto down my urethra... I think that is fairly kinky!
Jimi Duro wrote:
I would like to experience a nice metal stiletto down my urethra... I think that is fairly kinky!
Obviously not the double edged razor sharp flick knife used by gangsters and special forces, as I imagine that would involve a trip to A&E and the joy of explaining the attempted Bobett!
My mind is currently racing