Lack of 20 somethings here?

Hey, first time posting! We are a couple in our twenties, signed up to help explore more toys and try as much as we can. We didn’t realise how forum centred this is!

There is plenty we would like to talk about and discuss from desires, fantasies and kinks to advice and support. However, it doesn’t seem from looking around there are many people our age here?

We would love to be able to talk and discuss some people closer to our age as even though we have a lot of experience with many different things in this space - it’s just a bit more comfortable for us. As we say we have tried a lot of different things and are keen to get into reviewing toys and engaging with posts. We may delve into some of the forums but we are very interested to know if any 20 somethings are active here also?

Thanks!

J and c

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If that’s your observation, then that’s fair enough.

I’ve been on here for a few years and engage in many topics from positions, toys all the way to music.

I dont know the ages of the people I am talking to and I don’t think it matters.

I don’t think people know how old I am - they could guess with my music choices but that’s the beauty of this forum. It doesn’t matter.

Ask questions and get a range of answers from all ages and personal choices.

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I guess that’s fair!

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We were all 20 something at a time in our lives, but understand if you feel more comfortable talking to people who say they are 20 the forum doesn’t require verification or open identification of such. So everyone could easily be so. But welcome and hope you find good people to chat to and some might surprise you with wisdom.

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I’m 28 and Mrs H is 27, we have thought the same at times but we do enjoy hearing from more experienced people. It seems the people our age (younger generation) are not on this type of forum but each to their own. If you ever want to appear on our radar we are more than happy to discuss anything.

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hi and welcome to the forum. I agree i am not in my 20’s in body but my brain still thinks it is. i doubt we will ever meet so who cares about age.

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Hi and welcome to you both @JandCe , am sure you will soon fit in around here no matter what age.

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Hi @JandCe and welcome from one of the mature members here! :slightly_smiling_face:

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Maybe for the best in some cases.

In some ways I most certainly was a far more closed minded dick head in some of my 20s.

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Welcome to the Forum @JandCe all I have to say I was in my early twenties when I joined here now I’m in my late 40’s.

:see_no_evil_monkey:

:joy:

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Age is but a number. Wisdom and experience come with age.

You are of course welcome to your own preferences and this is by no means having a go.

In my experience all members of this forum have something useful to contribute and I have learnt a lot of tips and tricks from it.

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Hello hello @JandCe!:waving_hand:Welcome to the forums!:smiling_face:

I joined the forums when I was 19 and spent a good bit of my early 20s getting advice and learning from everyone’s wisdom and experiences on the forum. Coming back at 30, it’s a new perspective but still plenty to learn and chat about, you’re never alone on the LH forums!:heart::face_savoring_food:

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Helloooooo

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Welcome to the forum @JandCe

We are sort of in our twenties… Just twice :joy:

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Hi :waving_hand: @JandCe
Welcome to the forum :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hey we are both in our early twenties! Xx

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When I was in my twenties I couldn’t have found my own arse with both hands sexually speaking so I’m not sure I would have been much use to anyone on a forum such as this.

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Hey welcome to the forum, I am in my twenties and have had some amazing advice from people of all ages on this forum, I do agree that the forum doesn’t have many users in their twenties and that it is nice to get and ask for advice from someone your own age, but that doesn’t matter too much to me because everyone’s always really helpful and offer great advice and reviews :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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Hello, and welcome to the forum!

Nothing wrong with wanting to get insight from folks in your own demographic, but to be honest my contribution to any conversations in my twenties would have been total rubbish compared to now.

Frankly, the sex we were having 20 years ago was pretty rubbish compared to today, too. I’m sure physically 22-year-old me could outperform me today, but we didn’t really have a clue what to do with it. And I’m not actually doing too badly these days for that matter either.

So maybe you’ve got something to teach us living life in the unc lane? Join in the conversation, offer your thoughts, and engage with the folks who have been on the road ahead for a while longer! It’s a friendly place and we’re glad you’re here.

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Welcome to the forum, there is quite a good range of members on here in their 20s, hopefully they’ll pop up to say hey!

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