You make sense. As a man who have never had anal sex with a woman, but would like to, thanx for the tip xx
Good luck on your quest, Janny. I hoped that I could turn my negative experiences into something that might help someone else. Thanks for taking the time to let me know. :-)
My partner and I tried it a couple of times ages ago and I wasn't really into it, but lately I've been thinking I'd like to give it another go. I think we didn't take the time to ease ourselves into it properly, like a couple of people have mentioned I think taking the time to do it right and figure out what works best for us would make a big difference to how I feel about it.
My partner and I tried it a couple of times ages ago and I wasn't really into it, but lately I've been thinking I'd like to give it another go. I think we didn't take the time to ease ourselves into it properly, like a couple of people have mentioned I think taking the time to do it right and figure out what works best for us would make a big difference to how I feel about it.
You can certainly find that some day something just clicks. I found that with G spot play - really didn't get on with it and suddenly I love it!
Anal play I've always loved, but I can't manage full sex yet!
You can certainly find that some day something just clicks. I found that with G spot play - really didn't get on with it and suddenly I love it!
I'm hoping that's what'll happen! I haven't suggested trying it again yet, but I'm definitely warming to the idea and I know he'd be game. Plus I know he'll have no problem taking it slow if it's going to lead to something good eventually, so hopefully we'll get there! :)
Maybe you can have a nice relaxing bath with some massage oils (though keep away from condoms) and have an experiment with yourself and see what you like - then you can share what you discover with your OH?