My wife rarely does despite it turning me on. However nor do I really. However we do make love three/four times a week outside of the off week.
Maybe try suggesting things you could do together? Watching porn together, or watching as she does? I hate to be ‘that’ person but sometimes pressure is a real passion killer so I wouldn’t put too much pressure on her to explain herself! Try talking about it after having sex, so you’re comfy and you can broach topics you wouldn’t normally? Or after a few drinks? Works for us!
Brilliant idea & very hot!Fun Louise wrote:
Hi Hubby, what about asking if she would play with herself so that you can watch and step in and take the reins when she is excited or you can't resist anymore. If it works she might start enjoying herself without you there.
I never did either. Wasn’t fussed by it. I never found it very satisfying and it would frustrate me more no matter how long i did it. Buy her (and you) an OMGYES account - I’ve signed up today and cannot wait to put the kids to bed, the stuff that’s in it has blown my mind. You should read and watch it all too though!
Maybe you could let her "catch" you one day? Or simply straight out ask her when you're in bed one evening.
I've always been a bit of a wanker, but going on the Pill killed my libido dead. As did going on anti-depressants. I've heard the implant does the same to other women, too.
Just talking among female friends it becomes clear that most will either be having sneaky wanks or not be bothered due to hormones or medication.
Mastubation is the most natural thing for all of us, there is no need to feel any form of guilt. It's only pleasure :)
Not for over a week could do with it now
Sounds good Gemma12345 I just caught up with some new toys