OH told me recently she is turned on by dirty talk which is great. however she is a little shy about what words turn her on, as a result it is more trial and error, also, from her angle, works better if it is spontaneous. So to help me out what phrases work for you
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Well talking dirty is just that and often include the "F" word .I think many will break the forum rules . Your best bet is to google it and I am sure something will turn up .
If you search 'dirty talk' up top you'l find quite a few threads on this already:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/145630-dirty-talking-during-sex/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/753076-do-you-talk-dirty/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1153214-dirty-talk-during-sex/
(and more!)
Loads of ideas in there! I'd say if you're not sure maybe have a talk before hand if there are any words she finds offensive though, like slut or whore, before you try them out while doing the deed. Even if she can't tell you what words she likes, knowing what ones to avoid is good!
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I love been spoken dirty to... but when its me speaking I don't know what to say. I just replace my turn with loud moaning.
I love been spoken dirty to... but when its me speaking I don't know what to say. I just replace my turn with loud moaning.
Lovebirds_x wrote:
If you search 'dirty talk' up top you'l find quite a few threads on this already:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/145630-dirty-talking-during-sex/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/753076-do-you-talk-dirty/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1153214-dirty-talk-during-sex/
(and more!)
Loads of ideas in there! I'd say if you're not sure maybe have a talk before hand if there are any words she finds offensive though, like slut or whore, before you try them out while doing the deed. Even if she can't tell you what words she likes, knowing what ones to avoid is good!
+1 I love being talked dirty to but yes, slut, whore, tramp etc just sound degrading to me, although I'm sure loads of ladies love them.
Roleplaying is the only time I can get away with calling my wife a slut or whore without getting a slap accross my face .
Same here, it's the only time I enjoy being called these things!
Totally the same!drurysl02 wrote:
I love been spoken dirty to... but when its me speaking I don't know what to say. I just replace my turn with loud moaning.
drurysl02 wrote:
I love been spoken dirty to... but when its me speaking I don't know what to say. I just replace my turn with loud moaning.
+1
I feel like a right berk when I'm expected to participate in the mucky talk. I just tell him how good/big/hot he is and that seems to keep him happy, lol.
I don't think it's so much the words for me as it is the tone. My OH can call me a f****** whore and make it sound like an endearment or he can call me princess and make it an insult depending on the tone he uses.
As for dirty talk, I like to hear him describing what he's doing as he's doing it. I like to hear how I make him feel, how my body feels to him and what the things he's doing to me make him want to do next. He usually saves the heavy name calling for role plays, but again, it's all in the delivery for me and if said at the right time (which he always does) something as simple as calling me a slut can tip me over the edge.
I love it with the right guy, it's the driving lust, passion and tone that does it for me as much as the words. Hearing how much he loves this or that and how it feels, what he wants and wants to do etc. It really is how it's said. Totally gets me hot lol.
Binxx wrote:
I love it with the right guy, it's the driving lust, passion and tone that does it for me as much as the words. Hearing how much he loves this or that and how it feels, what he wants and wants to do etc. It really is how it's said. Totally gets me hot lol.
Totally the same for both of us
Personally Im not into name that put me down, even as "dirty" talk. What gets me going is a communicative partner who says and reacts to the situation in a way that makes me know he wants me / my body, by stating what he likes / waht he sees, how he feels, what he wants to do. That cant be scripted in my book, so I think maybe just working on your verbals and seeing what comes naturally would be a good step.
I find it's handy for the more confident partner (ie not me lol) to try and ask questions to guide and lead you into a response so that you dont feel like youre randomly saying something.
Eg 'tell me why you like my hard cock' etc
And make sure to look them in the eyes when you say anything - just makes it a more intense moment between you