Hi,
I was wondering what the best toys are for helping my girlfriend to squirt? She has dribbled a few times, mainly during sex, but we haven't been able to do it properly. We were using this glass dildo to help, but it didn't seem to work and she felt that it was too rough.. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13430
I am under the impression that G-spot dildos are the best to help out, what are the best ones for squirting? Are there any other types of toys that help too?
Many people swear by mains powered magic wands, might want to try with those :)
Lelo Mia, just to the left of my clit, usually takes about 20 minutes, but the results are explosive for me.
Everyone is different so all you can do is try a few toys to find out what works for you :)
I would definitely say something that curves towards the g-spot more, The straight ones will likely miss the good spots.
The first one I ever squirted with was the clear one from this set
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187
I have no joy squirting with the wand, for me it has to be the internal stimulation, which has to be quite forceful and fast. I think the technique you use has a lot to do with how successful you are, so it is just about finding what works for your partner.
I would also say something with a larger head, larger surface areas hitting the g-spot seem to be better for me.
Also I have not tried one yet, but these are meant to me good for squirting
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29225
Not sure if you've read them, but there have been a few threads on squirting techniques and success stories, which might be worth a browse :)
Unfortunately, toys don't get me squirting, it's down to the good old finger trick. But I shall keep trying :p
LadyS wrote:
I would definitely say something that curves towards the g-spot more, The straight ones will likely miss the good spots.
The first one I ever squirted with was the clear one from this set
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187
I have no joy squirting with the wand, for me it has to be the internal stimulation, which has to be quite forceful and fast. I think the technique you use has a lot to do with how successful you are, so it is just about finding what works for your partner.
I would also say something with a larger head, larger surface areas hitting the g-spot seem to be better for me.
Also I have not tried one yet, but these are meant to me good for squirting
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29225
Not sure if you've read them, but there have been a few threads on squirting techniques and success stories, which might be worth a browse :)
Thank you. Yeah she doesn't get the right sensation from the wands for it, the fingers work better but don't get her all the way. I have read that curved ones can be really good... This one looks like it may be the ticket even though its expensive -
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9030
Althought it may be an expensive experiment if its not the job.
I reckon a nice curved glass number would do the job, especially if fingers can get her almost there. I can get there with fingers, but it's more effort, lol. Not so bad if my fingers aren't doing the hard work ;)
As you say the above is an expensive experiment if it doesn't work. Although looks like it would be a lot of fun even of there was no squirting x
Not sure what will work best sailorjerry. My wife started squinting many years ago, it started with me using my fingers, but it has moved on now, if we're making love, she's sqirting within minutes if she's on top, but other positions work better than others, toy wise, dildos do the same job, we bought something almost identical to the we vibe, but without the option of the phone app, that's the only time the wife has squirted using just a vidrator, but I think it's just best to try different things and see what works best, but if We could give you any advise is for you both relax and don't force the issue, my wife was in her mid thirties before she started squinting, I don't know who was more shocked when it first happened, me or her
I agree with blue eyes. No toys seem to work with me either.
Scubaman wrote:
Not sure what will work best sailorjerry. My wife started squinting many years ago, it started with me using my fingers,
I wouldn't poke her in the eye then........
Sorry, I couldn't resist......
I'm easily amused.....
My wife would say the wand or my tongue wink, together with a come hither movement of 2 fingers on the gspot. I have had quite a few soakings lol
No toys have worked so far, but my other half seems to do the job just fine. Perfectly
My Jopen Comet G Wand is my best squirty dildo and the Lelo Ella is pretty decent too but both are discontinued on Lovehoney :/
Toys don't make me squirt! The only thing that makes me squirt is a good old fashioned two fingers inside and hard, vigorous clit tubbing at the same time. Takes nearly half an hour! But it works :)
Thanks for all your replies. I was wondering about all the girls who said it was best wih your fingers, is it as good with a partner fingering or does it make a big difference that you can feel what you are doing to yourself?
I havent got that far yet but my bf definitely manages to get me super wet... don't think it would take to much. hes the only one that can thou
I'm not a regular squirter by any means but I've found the FSOG greedy girl vibrator works well for me. Also my lovely hubby bought us the Louisiana Lounger last week. We've only tried it once but we had to shampoo the bedroom carpet afterwards! Have a PVC sheet on order for next time!
heck, this is a good thread
Doxy/hitachi for me specially when pressed against a dildo, but then I found one of LH bullets to me OMFG, but I was randy as anything at the time
This makes me squirt pretty much every time http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30708 if you think it might be too short for her there is a bigger version of the same dildo.
I've had no luck with anything labeled a gspot stimulator. I've heard wonderful things about the wand type vibrators, but have yet to try one. I've used a Rabbit for years. With sustained stimulation on the clit, the pressure seems to build up. After I've had 1-2 orgasms, the squirting starts.
R. Leigh
Author of Squirting: It's Easier Than You Think