I’m plagued by a problem that feels unique to me. I get “morning wood” is a thing for the fellas - I can’t say that it happens in this household, he’d rather wake up and play with his phone - but what about for the ladies? I’m a mid-thirties woman and I’ve noticed that I’m always rearing to go first thing in the morning, upon waking up - I can’t function without a morning orgasm usually any other ladies like me? Or people with female parters who are? I feel a bit odd!
No i dont. i think it is because i have too much to do first thing. Its difficult when you have three cats pestering for their breakfast bouncing on the bed and trying to get your feet. I do during the day and normally all day and in the evening but not as soon as i wake up.
That is the problem with cats vs dogs. My dog knows my routine, but not when I wake up. Once the bedroom door opens he knows we go out soon after, but before that is my business.
Oh you are odd @Tenshadesandme (but it is nothing to do with this!)
Seriously, I’m pretty much the same. In fact, even if my husband leaves at 4am and I’m asleep, I insist he gives me sleepy anal and makes sure I cum. It’s all a bit dreamy.
If I don’t cum early on, I’m not as productive. It’s as simple as that. So if you’re waking up with me, you know I’m gonna want you to make me cum. (Much better if someone else makes me cum - doing it myself if the last resort!)
See thats the thing cos as it is just the two of us we dont shut our door unless we are having sex. Even then they sit outside the door meowing so we put music on but you cant do that all night.
I do know what you mean about sleepy sex, it’s like “shouldn’t love it but can’t help but love it” stuff. I’m kind of the other end of the scale - first to bed, but if hubby comes to bed and he’s in the mood, don’t hesitate to wake me up. I’ll gladly work the next day with a stupid smile on my face.
Yes! It’s exactly that. No orgasm? No clarity. Orgasm? Meh, time to go be productive. I guess post nut clarity is no longer reserved for just men!
I don’t usually wake up horny but once I’m in the shower the shower head can get me turned on quickly. Usually for me it is mid morning when I get start to get horny and with working from home now it happens much more often.
I feel it’s an unfortunate curse of women (and men) with incredibly high sex drives when they have a partner who is not at the same level. Permanently waking up horny has never been an exclusively male phenomenon, being able to act on it has not been balanced either. With men boiling over before his partner has just got off the starting line.
@KinkyMira your day to day almost sounds like Nirvana on earth,
@Tenshadesandme you’re definitely not alone! I’m the exact same, I find myself waking up ridiculously horny and a quick orgasm seems to be the best way to start my day. Not entirely sure what causes it
Yes both Pen and I wake up horny probably 90% of the time … the only problem is that we both have to get ready for work and out the door to ensure that (1) I catch a train and (2) Pen catches the traffic right - the only thing is the critical time she has to leave home is substantially later than mine, so she has the time to assuage her horniness by touching, caressing and playing with my body while I am trying to wash and dress … at the weekends its a different matter of course without the need to get out on time … xxx
I don’t think a hum or thrum really cuts it. “Morning burden” might be more apt, universally at that
@WaveyAlien I wish I knew! I thought women are supposed to want sex in the evenings, the only thing I want to do after 10pm it seems is pass out on the sofa
@Phil44 lately my brain wakes up wanting to ride my husband on the sofa before he goes to work - no words, just pleasure. Could it be because I rearranged our lounge the other day and now the sofa faces the window, so it feels a bit exhibitionistic? Who knows?
@Wurger when hubby worked from home we definitely got up to a lot of mischief, he has an 8AM start now though and prefers to sleep in until he has to get up. I do have the higher sex drive so maybe that’s part of it, or maybe my body just prefers mornings for sex.
Hi. My ex gf was like that. 50yo.
Even during the night I’d wake to her having an orgasum. Arousing for me but like my sleep too lol. Big sex drive she had.
Bless you, i’ll admit i’ve had a few while hubby hss been asleep. I try to go to bed earlier and have fhem before he turns in but if I wake up and he’s dtill asleep… well lol. We have talked about it and it’s fine, same
the other way around, so long as he knows if I wake to him jacking off next to me, it might not be a solo sport for much longer
When My wife initiates sex it is predominantly in the morning. I get the wakeup call via my naked wife either starting to give me a handjob or blow job. We have teens so she must feel horny enough in the morning and confident thst we will not be walked in on as they get up late
Samantha here. No i cant say im always horny in the morning. Think its because i have to get up and get the kids ready for school etc. Most mornings i get up at 7 and get the kids sorted and then come up to give ben a blow job before he gets up at 8.15.
On the weekends its him that wakes me up for sex as hes always horny in the morning.
Not being interrupted definitely helps. I was up and active today then hubby got up later and was walking around naked and… well, lucky (or unlucky) for him I have stuff to do before his father gets here
@ben85 Ben is a lucky man. My husband just doesn’t do mornings, full stop. Unless he has to for work.
any other ladies like me? Or people with female parters who are? I feel a bit odd! 
… xxx