@AWB1955 - pegging is fun and j agree wearing a comfortable harness and dildo feels naughty
My bf loves being pegged but it’s vital to prepare before - it’s essential to get your partner to stretch to allow easy entry
Once inside I push deep and avoid allowing the dildo to come out
I like to thrust in and out (we call it bunny fucking) which he loves
@izzywizzy that term made me smile how did you get into it
@AWB1955 my sister is a lesbian and she had a harness for her girlfriend with various dildos and I liked how it looked and so one day I said to by bf would he like me to fuck him - he said ok so we started there - I would love a proper harness - my sister got hers from a specialist woman site and is so good
Many years ago when my wife was active , I loved the look of the leather harness . It was rather expensive , but worth every cent . When she walked around with a dildo on it and she managed to get into her inner dominitrix wearing lace stockings , I wanted her to Pegg me NOW ! As in all anal play , I always warmed up with a tee plug and or a butt plug to get some starter lube in before being mounted .
The harness I bought is a British made 2 strap leather harness but it’s not fitted with buckles but 2 sets of d rings and you buy the size that will fit you (mine is 14-16) so you don’t get flapping straps either side
To tighten you put it on like a pair of knickers and then pull the 2 straps to the side - no awkward buckle
I got it from a woman’s specialty sex shop - but it was about £48 after discount and when on - it’s a good snug fit - I hated in the past the harness would be loose and uncomfortable
Comes with usual 0 rings to fit up to 2 inch dildos
The look and feel is totally wonderful- I could wear it all day
I wish lovehoney would stock these - a different class
@izzywizzy That is such a nice story and verymopen.of your sister. What attracted it to you was it the thought of the power or just for fun
To the Pander to me topic we should go.
Anal is my favourite way to enjoy my boyfriends penis in me and one day after he cum I asked if he would like me to get a harness and dildo and fu#k him up the ass - he said yes and a hour later we ordered our first - we use it a lot now
@izzywizzy My oh is not so open minded about anul he like me walking around with jist my strapon and teasing him he will suck it tho whilst fingering me
@AWB1955 start with a small thin dildo not to scare him - but he needs to be game for it
@batjamboree thank you for that advice i think.he is coming around to.it tho i livecwearing my dildo so much of a power trip
Mrs W here …
@AWB1955 … I used to wear my strap-on and we would start snogging and playing Mr W said he loved it but he didn’t want me to put it in his bum, but eventually liked me running the dildo up and down his bumcrack using a lube while reaching around playing with his nips and/or cock n balls. So we continued like that for a few weeks. Sometimes the playing got a lot hotter, and it was during one of those sessions that he started to ask me to slide it in him. I didn’t do it straight away, in case he changed his mind, so I asked him at least 3 times “Are you sure?” Eventually after him begging me, I slid it in very slowly to see his reaction. After putting more lube on he was loving it… never looked back since. Talked about it after and next session gave him the chance to duck out… but he went for it. But as others have said, start small first and make sure plenty of lube … xx
@Wurger thank you for that advice my oh is very much like yours was in the beginning does not mind me running up and down his bum butbto actually start inserting its a no go at the mo I am sure he will get there
Mrs W here …
@AWB1955 … yes, he will get there. We just have to show our male units what they are missing sometimes. When they get there, they will say “Well, that was a good idea of mine, wasn’t it?” Just smile sweetly and say “Yes Darling” … 
xx
Harness sounds great. Would it be possible to share a pic in ‘toy box’ section. Girlfriend would love a leather harness but so hard to find one. 