After loads of research I was able to find a really comfortable harness for pegging made from soft leather
While I have 3 in total now and all fit the purpose of pegging I have to say leather is so comfortable to wear and the other night I slept in it …
It’s both comfortable and practical and looks great and holds the dildo nice and tight
I wanted to promote this harness in case you are looking for one - but its not cheap 
That sounds quite… erotic to think of my partner sleeping next to me in the pegging harness!
Are you able to say what harness it is?
@r3k - it’s not a lovehoney one so sorry cannot mention but I use with lovehoney dildos
@batjamboree it’s a shame you can’t let us know the brand/model. I’d dearly love to get Sexterminatrix a really nice, top quality leather harness but sadly most of the “mainstream” harnesses feel very cheap and nasty. 
@batjamboree thats sounds so nice did you sleep with the dildo attached just getting more into pegging
@AWB1955 - it was New Year’s Eve and we had been drinking a lot and I was totally drunk
We went to bed around 3am but I could not sleep so around 4am I decided to put on the harness and dildo and climbed back on bed and started poking my husband with the dildo to wake him up - but no luck
So I slept in it and woke in the morning wearing it (and wondering why)
@batjamboree Glad you had good NYE he missed out big time was it comfortable to sleep in i might try sleeping in my mine just stared on the road pegging
It was very comfortable to wear - as it’s leather it felt good
Nice my oh is starting to come around to full pegging. He loves watching me walking around witha dildo strapped to me
@AWB1955 - it’s fun and exciting wearing a dildo - I sometimes just do it to see the look on my husbands face
Yes I know what you mean its so powerful walking around wiith it strapped to you I teas my OH by waving in his face zhe the will suck.it and then let me rub it on him
May I suggest you use this channel to ask lovehoney to pander to you and see if it’s something they can stock.
Only if you find it fits the rules of that channel!
@Sexterminator it might be helpful for you too
My wife used to fall asleep wearing her strap-on after she’d pegged me and we both really liked the idea that when I reached for her in the night I was touching a penis rather than a vagina, so for convenience and comfort we bought a soft packer (silicone cock and balls) which she wears every night inside mens pants.
Conversely I sleep every night in women’s knickers with a silicone gaff (fake vagina) inside them.
@JGood in fairness lovehoney do sell a leather harness but I never bought it as I feel it does not look good and it’s expensive- https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-on-kits/p/dominix-deluxe-leather-strap-on-harness/a40083g73304.html
The front panel is just cut and not turned and the straps look weak and the poppers do not look too good - but I could be wrong
@batjamboree Hi, thanks for that link. i am looking for a harness, and I will have a good look at it, but i appreciate your comments
I love my harness as well but never had a leather one - sounds you are into pegging hardcore… what size dildo do you use ?
@izzywizzy We have just started on the journey of pegging what size dildoes do you use any advice is grateful
We have the one harness with 2 dildos one is black with balls about 6 inch long and a pink slightly smaller one without balls
My bf loves both - but the one without balls is easy to fit into the ring harness
I do enjoy wearing it - but as @batjamboree has said I would love a leather one as I note in porn the doms generally wear black leather and these look so good and that’s what I want - I want to look fierce…
As for positions - doggy is best for depth missionary is fun but you need a longer dildo or over a chair is good and great for videos
I’m looking to get more equipment but I’m skint 
@izzywizzy we are very new into pegging he iscstill very cautious about it . I have a sense of power walking around with a dildo between my legs its strange Any advice woukd be welcomed