Been looking at spreader bars on here to spice things up a bit. Really like the idea of getting OH tied up and legs held open, just wondering if the bar gets in the way after foreplay is out of the way? Is just tieing ankles to wrists better?
The bars can get in the way, but it largely depends what position you go for. Just go ahead and try it...!
The way I was thinking of using one which may help with the problem highlighted by Sum Sub is to use a door jam hand restraint set in conjunction with the spreader bar. That way of course your partner would be upright which for us would be ideal as it would be part of a roleplay.