My girlfriend really love me licking her clit and she gets slot of pleasure but she's not screaming is there any other techniques for her to feel like screaming like finger and lick at same time
my boyfriend tends to finger me and lick my clit in the same rhythm. So, when you insert your fingers lick in an upward motion and vice-versa, you could also try using a vibrator at the same time? those techniques seem to work for me :)
hope this helps!
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I'd also suggest using fingers as well as tongue, but have you considered the fact that maybe your girlfriend just isn't a screamer? And no matter what you do or how good it feels for her she just won't scream?
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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23015
I woukd suggest the above toy at the same time as oral clitoral stimulation. As PPD said tho, maybe she just isnt a screamer? My gf is naturally quiet, even more so now we have kids.
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Not all women scream & moan like girls in porn, and a lot of the ones that do (especially in porn) are faking it. PPD is right; maybe she just isn't a screamer, but that doesn't mean she isn't loving it
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not everyone's a screamer, though you could try adding a tounge vibrator such as
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16147
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27277
or an oral sex vibrator
agree with eveyone - not all girls scream!! But I will guess she is loving it anyway. My oh also fingers me at same time but I also like when he just licks me, just have to keep trying different things and speak to her, ask her what she likes when you do different things, some girls are bit shy & wont say if they like something or not, so just ask her to tell you?
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Sean88 wrote:
My girlfriend really love me licking her clit and she gets slot of pleasure but she's not screaming is there any other techniques for her to feel like screaming like finger and lick at same time
A little tip that seems to get my OH goiing. Whilst your tongue is on her clit, her on her back and you between her thighs. Reach around her thighs to her mons venus( pupic mound) and pull her skin towards her belly button. This will pull back the clitural hood back and make the clit really stick out. Then you can really go to town on it. Another tip is to get your tongue right down to the base of here clit and keep you tongue firm move it up slow untill the clit flicks passed your tongue. Enjoy
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Like others have said, not all women are screamers !!!!
As long as she gets pleasure from it, then I wouldn't worry that she's not screaming like a porn star.
A little tip that seems to get my OH goiing. Whilst your tongue is on her clit, her on her back and you between her thighs. Reach around her thighs to her mons venus( pupic mound) and pull her skin towards her belly button. This will pull back the clitural hood back and make the clit really stick out. Then you can really go to town on it. Another tip is to get your tongue right down to the base of here clit and keep you tongue firm move it up slow untill the clit flicks passed your tongue. Enjoy
The techniques mentioned by Gentle Giant works well.
I often do this & my wife loves it !!!!
So what does everyone think about sucking gently on the clit? I detest it but some of my friends love it
my advice mirrors everyone else plus also
go gently
it isn't a race so start off slow and bring the speed up as your lady dictates
I love it when my oh fingers me inside at the same time
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Ask her! I am sure she will let you know what you could do to please her (Women like different things, so we can give you examples of what we like, but it may be totally off putting for her)
I personally like fingers, or a dildo, inserted at the same time. It doesn't have to be moving either, just something to squeeze around.
Also I agree with what a lot of the ladies have said above. Not all women are screamers. I am one of them. WHile having sex, I moan, while doing lots of other things, I moan, but when I am focusing on the pleasure he gives me from oral sex or even stroking me with his fingers, I am very quiet. You might think I was asleep if you did not notice me rocking my hips. This is true of lots of women. When us "quiet ladies" are "in the zone" we lay back, close our eyes and go into our heads, enjoying our fantasies and focusing on the sensations from below. The truth is...the quieter I am, the more I am probably enjoying it! (Which can look bad, so I purposely throw out a few moans for his benefit, but doing that can even be off putting to me! I want to just relax and enjoy ahhh. maybe your lady is like me.
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Just his it up a bit and have fun. Also not all women ream their heads off when they cum. Sometimes when I cum really hard, I go quiet! lol.
She probably isn't a 'screamer', not all girls are like that.
You should probably be able to tell how she's feeling from her body movements.
Experiment and ask, it's the way to know whether it's good. I prefer tongue and one finger. Not two, just one. It's different for everyone. And I twitch, never have the urge to scream, and it's still amazing.
Citygirl2810 wrote:
So what does everyone think about sucking gently on the clit? I detest it but some of my friends love it
my advice mirrors everyone else plus also
go gently
it isn't a race so start off slow and bring the speed up as your lady dictates
I love it when my oh fingers me inside at the same time
I like it, first time my boyfriend did this i hated it, it wasnt gentle enough but now he has perfected it!
"Screaming" definitely shouldn't be used as a gauge to whether someone is enjoying something or not. Everyone is different. I've never understood the obsession.
One thing I do that REALLY drives my OH wild is while I am licking/flicking my tongue over her clit I vibrate my throat, like going through the alphabet - Aaaaaaaaa. Bbbbbbbbb etc. But do it at the back of your throat so it's more like a hum then actually saying anything. different letters/sylables/sounds have different vibration to them in the vocal chords and it will actually flow through your tongue into her clit!
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I love mine being nibbled....just a bit. I'm sure she's enjoying what your already doing tho :) x
Fluffbags wrote:
Ask her! I am sure she will let you know what you could do to please her (Women like different things, so we can give you examples of what we like, but it may be totally off putting for her)
I personally like fingers, or a dildo, inserted at the same time. It doesn't have to be moving either, just something to squeeze around.
Also I agree with what a lot of the ladies have said above. Not all women are screamers. I am one of them. WHile having sex, I moan, while doing lots of other things, I moan, but when I am focusing on the pleasure he gives me from oral sex or even stroking me with his fingers, I am very quiet. You might think I was asleep if you did not notice me rocking my hips. This is true of lots of women. When us "quiet ladies" are "in the zone" we lay back, close our eyes and go into our heads, enjoying our fantasies and focusing on the sensations from below. The truth is...the quieter I am, the more I am probably enjoying it! (Which can look bad, so I purposely throw out a few moans for his benefit, but doing that can even be off putting to me! I want to just relax and enjoy ahhh. maybe your lady is like me.
FB on the money again, great advice. Its a MARMITE moment some do some dont. Just have fun
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Allso another little tip I love doing. Is to make a seal over the clit with your mouth, pulling back the clit hood, then try to suck and draw the clit out like a pussy pump. when youve done this keep it there and just flick the very tip with just the tip of your tongue. My HO loves this because she has to show some restraint because if she moves to much the seal is broken, Enjoy