Lingerie for plus sized boudoir photo shoot...

Hiya all...i am flagging as most of us are in the new year, my confidence is wavering. Now normally I am a very happy plus sized woman but just lately I've been dreaming of being a size 12..this must be stopped. I need to fall in love with my curves again. Looking into a boudoir photo shoot..now the lady doing it has given me some do's and don't's what to wear wise and I am pleased a lot I have or can get from Lovehoney , I need help as i am struggling to find anything that's not thongs or g-strings or crotchless..i am a size 18/20 ..anyone have any advice I was thinking thong under crotchless knickers maybe...I know I could probably do the shoot in a thong but I look better in sexy knickers..and any ideas of what I could wear you guys may have better ideas than me, will make a photo shoot wishlist for ideas xxx thank you xxx

would some of those lacy boyshorts look any good? :)

What a lovely idea, I'd love to do something like this but I've never got round to it.

I actually struggled to find the type of knickers I would wear on here.. I love satin type things and crotchless isn't always appropriate.

This might be an idea (with nipple tassles, even better with a cup-less/peephole black bra)-

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21856

If I were you I'd actually invest in a lovely bra and knicker set from some where I can't mention on here.

I am assuming you've thought about stuff like babydolls ect? The hardest part will be getting nice bottoms x

Ooo oh i found these - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30986

Order absolutely everything, and then, day after the shoot, send it all back!
Woohoo awesome returns policy

I had a look through the panties and have come to the conclusion that you may need to look elsewhere for them. It seems everything lovehoney stocks is rather daring.
Good for you embracing your curves! I love mine :) it helps that my partner finds skinny girls a turn off though. That increases my confidence because I know he adores me because I'm curvy and i dont care what any other men think.
I think the boudiour shoot is a great idea to increase your body confidence. I hope it helps you realise what a beautiful and sexy woman you are!
Have you picked any outfits yet? Xx

Sum Sub wrote:

Order absolutely everything, and then, day after the shoot, send it all back!
Woohoo awesome returns policy

Lol tut tut! Shame on you :p

I love your idea!!

My mum did this for her 50th as she is hung up on being a plus sized lady and the photoshoot really did her wonders. You could wear a corset, not tightly tied, nice bikini knickers & stockings? I hope you find your perfect outfit and have a blast with the shoot ^_^ You'll look incredible!

popk1n wrote:

would some of those lacy boyshorts look any good? :)

I am too big for them unfortunately..I hear whispers about plus size flirty knickers coming soon..from the pander to me thread, so keeping my eye out for them xxx

Wildcherry wrote:

What a lovely idea, I'd love to do something like this but I've never got round to it.

I actually struggled to find the type of knickers I would wear on here.. I love satin type things and crotchless isn't always appropriate.

This might be an idea (with nipple tassles, even better with a cup-less/peephole black bra)-

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21856

If I were you I'd actually invest in a lovely bra and knicker set from some where I can't mention on here.

I am assuming you've thought about stuff like babydolls ect? The hardest part will be getting nice bottoms x

Ooo oh i found these - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30986

Oooh...I never thought about backless knickers..Thank you! Oh yes definitely looking at babydolls and Basques..possibly mini dresses too xxx

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

Sum Sub wrote:

Order absolutely everything, and then, day after the shoot, send it all back!
Woohoo awesome returns policy

Lol tut tut! Shame on you :p

Sum Sub wrote:

Order absolutely everything, and then, day after the shoot, send it all back!
Woohoo awesome returns policy

Sum sub you are naughty! I love good lingerie too much to ever send it back! Xx

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

I had a look through the panties and have come to the conclusion that you may need to look elsewhere for them. It seems everything lovehoney stocks is rather daring.
Good for you embracing your curves! I love mine :) it helps that my partner finds skinny girls a turn off though. That increases my confidence because I know he adores me because I'm curvy and i dont care what any other men think.
I think the boudiour shoot is a great idea to increase your body confidence. I hope it helps you realise what a beautiful and sexy woman you are!
Have you picked any outfits yet? Xx

I was thinking that myself vanilla 😱😠😥 thank you very much...I've been slim but I look better big..but knowing that and being happy these days is tough..my partner too have never dated anyone smaller than a 14 so he likes curvy which as you say helps ...I've always wanted to.do a boudoir shoot but never had the confidence or lingerie to do it...this year though...aww thanks huni..this is what I've picked out so far..xxx

MissNoir wrote:

I love your idea!!

My mum did this for her 50th as she is hung up on being a plus sized lady and the photoshoot really did her wonders. You could wear a corset, not tightly tied, nice bikini knickers & stockings? I hope you find your perfect outfit and have a blast with the shoot ^_^ You'll look incredible!

Awww thank you huni, that's lovely of you to say, bet your mum looked amazing, glad it helped her , sure it will me too xxx

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16661

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30233

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32656

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32662

This is what I have so far xxx

Oo I love the racer back dress! The model looks stunning in it as I'm sure you would too! The Beyonce outfit is always a winner as well ;)
Hope you post some of your pictures, you may inspire me to also have a boudiour shoot x

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

Oo I love the racer back dress! The model looks stunning in it as I'm sure you would too! The Beyonce outfit is always a winner as well ;)
Hope you post some of your pictures, you may inspire me to also have a boudiour shoot x

I know right..I.love the Lovehoney plus size model..Thank you..I definitely will post some up! Having to save but hopefully will be next couple of months..May be March xxx it's not cheap because of make up artist etc..but feel it will be worth it xxx oh I hope you do!! Xx

Great idea! I hope that will give you a confidence boost, you're beautiful and deserve to feel it! if the flirty knickers are out in time than the boyshorts or briefs would be good! Hope we get to see a few of these pictures! Xx

Suspender belts like this maybe? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32848 paired with some nice stockings you can't go wrong!

These knickers are lovely and not crotchless. Pair with a matching bra for a sexy shot! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32062

I think this is absolutely stunning; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32843

This is gorgeous too, the spanker would make a great prop! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25213

NatandTom wrote:

This is gorgeous too, the spanker would make a great prop! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25213

Good choice! That would be perfect x

Vanilla_Kink wrote:

NatandTom wrote:

This is gorgeous too, the spanker would make a great prop! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25213

Good choice! That would be perfect x

NatandTom wrote:

Great idea! I hope that will give you a confidence boost, you're beautiful and deserve to feel it! if the flirty knickers are out in time than the boyshorts or briefs would be good! Hope we get to see a few of these pictures! Xx

Suspender belts like this maybe? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32848 paired with some nice stockings you can't go wrong!

These knickers are lovely and not crotchless. Pair with a matching bra for a sexy shot! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32062

I think this is absolutely stunning; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32843

This is gorgeous too, the spanker would make a great prop! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25213

Oooh thank you...added to my now probably too much photo shoot wishlist, as I have things already I can use! Hmmm may have to.cut it down or just go for it..haven't finished adding stuffs yet! Xxx

If money wasn't an issue, I'd choose between these:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30939

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34899

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33773

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27381

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26779

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33023

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34932

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27309

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29163

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22985

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33763

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32083

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30995

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30233

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27305

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31139

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33197 (I love this so much, I'm a 42DD and the 3X/4X just about fits me)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32181

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33202 (I'm a 16-18 on bottom half and the 1X/2X is comfortable)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27318

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30984

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27709

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21856

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27712

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33204 (the 1X/2X is slightly bigger than its knicker equivalent above)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21328

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30988

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18621

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24064

Well, I think I clogged this thread with my many links... so hope it helps.

Mummy - I LOVE getting these types of photos done, I have done it twice or maybe three times? LOL and plan to do it again after I am healed up more... doubt I will have them in time for valantines day but gonna try. I actually take the book out and look at my own photos to feel sexy and cheer myself up sometimes.

the photographer I worked with suggested I bring several options and we choose together. I really recommend you think not only about lingere types, but also COLOUR. I have done black corset, black lace chemise, but also a light pink babydoll with molded cups, black bras set with a higher / deeper garter belt to hide the belly. I have worn thongs, and also more traditional knickers... some high waisted french knickers could be lovely. And not everything has to be traditional lingerie to be sexy.... I did some on the OHs dress shirt and tie over bra, panties and thigh high stockings.

Does your photographer provide shoes? Because nude colour heels will make your legs look longer as well.