Hi, not sure if this is in the correct category…luckily I don’t suffer with erection issues, as it’s our 10th wedding anniversary soon we planned on a night of passion…just wondering if anyone has tried Viagra or similar and what their experience of this was.
Thoughts and suggestions on how this could also be used in any kinky way imaginable are also welcome!
@YCSTM I haven’t got to that point yet of the little blue pill myself, I currently use will power and a lot of re directing my blood at 57 I think that the little blue pill maybe somewhere in the future for me hopefully a way of yet 
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I’m 41 and have no issues performing, just thought it might enhance things a little for both of us, as it would allow us both to get carried away with the knowledge that I’m still going to be hard after cumming
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@YCSTM Great question - never used it.
Always have been looking for something to get the wife’s libido up. I don’t want to drug her or anything…lol but have been always looking for a good herbal supplement or something that she could take without knowing and see if it would work to up her drive. Sounds creepy but I anticipate sex every night before bed. It happens once every ten days if I am lucky… even after much discussion she doesn’t really seem interested.
Can I cook some “greek” or “Italian” chicken with some herbs on it that would be just for her? 
Nooo, that’s very risky as you don’t know how it will affect her, plus it’s assault.
P.S. not only does it sound creepy,it IS.
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I’m sure you didn’t mean it quite like that but this does come across badly and creepy, sorry to be blunt. No one should ever be given something without their knowledge.
That being said, you could try cooking her a lovely romantic meal (where you both eat the same and you don’t drug her). Think wine, candles and love without any expectations.
Look up aphrodisiac foods - asparagus, strawberries and chocolate are all on the list and you could make a wonderful meal
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@WillC LOL. I would never do anything like that… we been married 22 years and I would simply slide her the question and some female herbal pills if she really wanted to try it.
Is there any other things for ladies that work? I guess that was my question and I got a little too creative…
I think she even knows that with the day to day grind, the last thing she wants to do at night is stay up an extra hour… she loves her sleep. @Kitty-Cat01 you are right - making her relax or whisking her away for the weekend always gets her in the mood. In fact, I just booked a weekend away for the last of Sept. Hot tub and fireplace included…
I’m sure it’s the same for everyone but, as you said, she wouldn’t want to stay up for an extra hour, maybe try to remove an hour of stuff (probably chores) so that you can spend that hour having fun before bed?
I’ve never used viagra but like you have been intrigued as to the lasting effects. Following this thread for more info 
I probably do more around the house than many guys.
I guess I’m not looking for how to get more chores on my plate - wondering if there is a female viagra-type product that has worked for others. If doing chores around the house is the answer, it isn’t working! Lol…
Lovehoney do stock this but obviously she would have to agree to trying it.
Check out this link which tells you the effects of natural foods.
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I’ve been using viagra / sildenafil for a few years now.
The reason I needed it turned out to be that I was iron deficient due to a bleeding
ulcer. I passed out one day getting out of the shower and had a minor seizure. Thankfully
my wife was there, and I came to pretty quickly again, but it was off to the doctor and then
hospital for some tests. After numerous procedures like gastroscopy, colonoscopy, polyp removal etc, the actual cause was found. I was put on high dose antacids for 3 months to let the ulcer heal and I’ve been fine since.
Anyway, as my iron levels have improved, my need to use viagra has lessened to the point where I take some about half the time or less, and usually only 1/4 tablet.
As for the effect, in the quantity that I take (1/2 tab at most) it allows me to perform normally without staying hard when it is not wanted. The thing that makes me not want to take it is the side effect that makes my nasal passages close up somewhat, and seen as I have fairly narrow ones anyway, it makes it harder to breath through my nose.
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I have tried it before . My wife was working at a dr office and came home with some free samples.
It does work but the I experienced side effects which I don’t want to use the pills again. My head felt stuffed up and kinda felt like my brain was in a “fog” so to speak. I felt that my heart was beating faster as well . Nothing so serious that I thought I needed help but was definitely out of my ordinary .
Your results my vary …
After a diagnosis of low testosterone I have used Viagra and, although it does work for me, the side effects are not ideal and I would certainly not recommend taking it recreationally.
Remember Viagra does not increase libido, It simply increases the blood flow to the penis so that, when aroused, it is easier to get an erection. It does not actually increase sexual arousal so I see little point in using it on your partner.
Thanks all! I think I’ll leave the little blue pill firmly in the realms of fantasy!