we're off to London before Christmas and fancy finding somewhere that's a cool club, not sleezy or full of pervs, that we can have a few drinks and flirt wildly with each other.
Then, as the evening draws on folks start getting it on with each other, having open sex etc.
We really fancy the idea of having sex together whilst others are doing the same around us; we don't want to swing or be hassled to do so, we just love the idea of anything goes sex with each other in a safe environment that's hot, exiting and sexy, not grubby or distasteful, where the scene turns you both on, but too busy having amazing sex to be noticed.
Plenty of exclusive bars and clubs are in London, the torture garden events are excellent too but you do need to be dressed for the occasion. Just search for “sex clubs in London” and I’m sure you will find plenty of places to get your kick. Be prepared though as it’s a wonderland of fetishes and different events so you may want to find some very specific voyeur type places rather than swinging clubs.
We are relatively new to the fetish club thing and went to torture garden now a few times, even went to the Brighton Manor House one which was amazing. The TG site is good and they are helpful, also gives all dates. I wrote a post on the experience: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/off-topic/1686926-torture-garden-events/#p1689816 In my opinion go, its respectful and a lot of fun. We were dubious but were at it very soon after arriving here therre and everywhere! We are not swingers and its well respected, i even got some super hot chick to flog my wife! Go and enjoy it, your first outfit will feel tame!