So I've recently been sexperimenting with my more dominant side and I have to say I have been missing out for far too long! I'm feeling so fulfilled and excited about my sex life.
Anywho, I'm long distance with a man who is really into being a sub and I was hoping y'all could provide some suggestions for new ways to tease him?
Cam stuff is not an option because he's rooming with someone and doesn't have the privacy for it but I'm trying to come up with new creative things to order/suggest for him to do. Open to any and all advice/suggestions! x
Buy him a chastity cage. Post it to him minus the keys with the lock open and tell him to put it on and lock it. Confirm with pictures. Then when you feel like he is allowed to play with himself post him the key. Make sure he posts it back again if you have him locked up again.
Buy him a chastity cage. Post it to him minus the keys with the lock open and tell him to put it on and lock it. Confirm with pictures. Then when you feel like he is allowed to play with himself post him the key. Make sure he posts it back again if you have him locked up again.
Oh risky, they do not always fit and I would not recommend putting one on without a dry run to make sure it fits and is comfortable for long term wear. Without a key handy you may find yourself out of a job and with a very unhappy exsub.
The CB range offer plenty of different sized fittings and if things start to turn blue a little snip on the plastic pin allows release 👍🏼 If things are fine then Bobs your happy sub 👍🏼
You could always post him the key with the cage for emergency purposes but require it to be sealed away in a way you can visually prove - for example, include a square of paper with your signature and some doodles on it (or a lipstick print or something else hard to forge), get him to lock himself up then stick the key to the paper and wrap the whole thing in sticky tape. Easy to take a photo of it to prove it is still sealed away, very difficult to fake a replacement, super easy to get the key out when necessary or when permitted.
No room for problems with the postal service that way either!
There are padlocks you can buy that are designed for luggage. They are found in most supermarkets and have a number to input before it will release. You can set a new number each time and send it to him open. He will be unable to open it unless you tell him the number.
I still recommend a trial to ensure correct fit but if you choose to go down this route, sexting and long distance teasing will make it worthwhile for both of you.