Hey, i've been with my OH quite awhile now, I see him for a week or two every 3 or 4 months and the first few times he visited I felt as if we had to have sex quite a lot because I wouldn't get to see him for awhile and I'm just wondering if that's a bad thing? Over time because he has visited for longer times (2 weeks etc) and i've seen him more the feeling of "needing" to has gone and i'm much more comfortable turning it down if I just want some cuddles and sleep but i've always wondered if i'm the only one that's been in that suitation..
Also, he is moving here in July and I'm really starting to get worried to what it'll be like knowing i'm going to see him more.. I know that might sound weird but it kinda scares me to think about it and how he'll fit in etc.. He's not actually moving in with me, but a few miles away until spring 2012 when i'll move in with him. It's just a bit scary 'cause everyone here that's met him expects it to go wonderfully and i'll feel like we have expectations that we might not be able to live up to. I guess it doesn't help the fact I had a massive bust up with his friends girlfriend (ToyCar knows the full story about this) basically, what happened was she told him I was treating him badly and he shouldn't move here and that he should break up with me. Then she went on about how pathetic I was to attempt suicide and that i've forced my OH into depression and it put him in the situation where if he defended me his best friend would be a dick about it, but he was upsetting me by not defending me. This kinda "set off" the thoughts that him moving up here could really go badly. I love him, don't get me wrong but I know we will both be really stressed and he will have to start over while i've got studying to do aswell as money issues.
Because of thinking about this aswell as exams, the change of both our medications, my "best friend" ditching me, sexual fustration etc it's blown my stress levels overboard and i've been geting upset a lot more aswell as argueing more.. I feel like I have no one to talk to because everyone has such high expectations about us.