Hello, myself and my partner love it when I use butt plugs. We’ve been using them for quite some time and I’m now able to use quite a large plug.
But when I have a plug in, my bum contracts quite a lot and I end up pushing it out.
Are there any experienced long term butt plug wearers here? And if so, how you do control the contractions? We have tried harnesses to physically hold it in place, but sometimes the contractions are so intense it still gets pushed out. We really want to build on me wearing a butt plus for extended periods but this is becoming a problem.
As AJSTAR says, some have thinner stems which stay in much better. I have found these to often be the metal ones. The soft ones often have thicker stems, I guess for strength to stop them breaking off inside you.