Hi
Me and my boyfriend really would love a threesome with another female but are finding it hard to find genuine females.
Just wondering if you guys could give us tips on sites or places to find someone.
Try www.fabswingers.com
Or look up your local swinging club. However I must add caution as it can undermine the strongest of relationships so you both must be 100% committed to each other for this to be a success And both of you wsnting this .You will also have to carefully assess the other party and her feelings if you intend doing this outside a clubs protection and rules.
Really not into the idea of swingers clubs.
I'm not worried about our relationship but I do worry about the third person
Best thing I have found is for you both to be comfortable with he idea first or else it we’ll play on one or both of your minds so make sure you are both 100% comfortably with it but just going out meeting new people conversations about the subject best and easiest way if you want to stay clear of clubs and websites x
We have found there is plenty of genuine couple that are willing to try new things as couples but like you have said it’s hard to find a single women x
Oh I got approached by couples but I don't want to be with another man and my boyfriend is straight plus also not into a guy watching us with his partner.
We like alot of things but not for us
Hi Miss Poet,
What avenues have you gone down already out of interest?
S x
Just dating sites so far tried a few that are for people looking for threesomes, talked and video messaged a few girls but always seem to cancel when we arrange to meet
Hello there me and my gf are looking to bring a woman into our sex life aswel. We have tryed a few people we know with no joy, but we have come to the conclusion that the best idea would be a respected escort agency who you can talk to first and get the right girl who understands what you are doing. Hope you find the right girl and love to hear about it.
Ahhh 😕 Maybe it's worth pursuing a little longer and being a bit more straight forward at the start. The woman may be anxious about meeting up with a couple. So I would possibly suggest that you arrange for her to meet with just one of you originally and possibly just over coffee to ensure no wires have been crossed and your both on the same page. Plus in person, you can definitely tell of there is chemistry and sex will actually be good! Keep us informed 😊 S xmiss poet wrote:
Just dating sites so far tried a few that are for people looking for threesomes, talked and video messaged a few girls but always seem to cancel when we arrange to meet
Oh we have I just think some girls love the idea oh it but back out. Plus we want them to be into some "fetishes"Call me S wrote:
Ahhh 😕 Maybe it's worth pursuing a little longer and being a bit more straight forward at the start. The woman may be anxious about meeting up with a couple. So I would possibly suggest that you arrange for her to meet with just one of you originally and possibly just over coffee to ensure no wires have been crossed and your both on the same page. Plus in person, you can definitely tell of there is chemistry and sex will actually be good! Keep us informed 😊 S xmiss poet wrote:
Just dating sites so far tried a few that are for people looking for threesomes, talked and video messaged a few girls but always seem to cancel when we arrange to meet
Wishing the best! I've been trying to find somebody for a while but all I can find is MMM and.... not interested.
Just like most people have mentioned fabswiners or swinging clubs.
Or try gay clubs we have had a few after a night out in one.
Most swinger clubs have private rooms and arent as seedy as you may first think, There is also no pressure to take part in anything so you could pop along with the mindset that you are there just to see what its like over taking part in anything.
In my experince most girls we meet are not into swinging but a threesome has been a fantasy or even just a bi experince, We have been very lucky in being at the right place at the right time with most of ours.
I don't think swingers clubs are seedy just not someone who likes attention unless I give permission for it, I've always been one to initiate sex. I'm just very domlittlemissvicki wrote:
Just like most people have mentioned fabswiners or swinging clubs.
Or try gay clubs we have had a few after a night out in one.
Most swinger clubs have private rooms and arent as seedy as you may first think, There is also no pressure to take part in anything so you could pop along with the mindset that you are there just to see what its like over taking part in anything.
In my experince most girls we meet are not into swinging but a threesome has been a fantasy or even just a bi experince, We have been very lucky in being at the right place at the right time with most of ours.
Have you tried fetlife? Might be worth a shot.
Me and my husband want to try several things a threesome, swinging, a gangbang.
We haven't found a single girl for a threesome but haven't tried too hard as of yet