My wife and I (both in our early 30s) have recently decided to spice things up by incorporating dildos into our playtime. I particularly enjoy using wearable dildos because they offer more control and feel closer to real intimacy.
However, we’ve encountered a bit of a challenge. For men, the typical options are hollow dildos or penis sleeves, but both come with sizing issues that my wife isn’t fond of. We currently use a standard dildo that’s about 15 cm, which works well for us.
My question is: How can I wear a regular dildo (not a hollow one or a sleeve) without my real penis getting in the way? Sometimes I get erect, but I don’t want to jump straight into penetration.
I’m no expert in wearable dildos and harnesses, but this one is unisex which might work for you? If needs be, you might be able to get webbing ad extend the straps to make it weatable for you?
The other interesting idea might be the Balldo, though I have read mixed reviews on these.
Agreed - @user769 it looks like most of the strappy/webbing based strap-harnesses could be adjusted to secure the dildo and harness pad higher on your lower belly with your penis exposed between the straps below the padding. I like the way this one looks for being able to do that.
You could also look at the some double-penetrator cockrings (like this) that might do the trick.
Hope that helps. I know for myself on days that I really want to help wifey get her O but I’m not hard for whatever reason it’s quite enjoyable even just to grind on the base of the dildo that she has inside, especially from behind, but she doesn’t usually care much for long in and out thrusting so much as deep grinding. That’s often enough that it does get me hard again and I can either swap with the dildo, occasionally slide in on top of the dildo (double vaginal penetration) or go anal for DP.
If you voogle for chastity dildo harness, there is one designed to fit over a penis (straps go over and around everything). I dont think its a lovehoney product. Otherwise i use a lovehoney one (with velcro straps) that works okay, splits in 2 when going under / between my legs.
I can get it sitting just higher than my penis and works well. If im not caged, i tend to tuck myself upwards (in the waist strap) so that it doesnt get in the way of the toy.
I tuck the old man into the briefs so that it isnt in the way and get down to business. Benefit of the o ring is that you can swap the dildo if younhave a selection and tend to uae different sizes.
I see , but is it possible to use even if one have an erected penis ? I never tried strap on harness briefs , M actually looking for a way to manage an erected penis without getting all the pressure from the dildo on it , we cannot use a Hollow Dildo or a Penis sleeve due to their size so M limited to small dildos and want to make them wearble as a man