I would love to find a lady who would put a cock cage on me, keep the key for a certain length of time and release me at her choosing.
How common is this practise?
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You dont need a lady you can do it for yourself if you want to try getting one the right size and one with the right size ring can be tricky as get it wrong and can be really uncomfortable to say the least
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It’s called chastity and it’s very common in submissives. There are plenty of kinky women who might entertain it if you discuss it with them.
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Been doing it for almost 5 years.
Taking a break from the cage at the moment but still in chastity.
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@Outdoorseyguy - I do this to my husband and only yesterday I put him in a cock cage early morning and promised to release him after he did his chores
Yesterday was washing and I get him dressed in his maid dress and do the laundry- he loves it
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We have tried him wearing a cock cage a few times now and its fun and interesting. We are not really into any chastity lifestyle but it is fun for a week or two a couple of times a year or ‘Locktober’. Originally we did it as we were not living together and it was a turn on to control him not masturbating.
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@Quiet_ones_are_worse is correct. You can play with chastity without a partner involved. A few suggestions …
Try out various cages with the key in your pocket first. You will find ones that are better under work clothes or during different activities than others.
Freeze the key in a block of ice. You don’t get it out until the ice is melted. Larger the block, longer to suffer. Of course, you can cheat on this one with hot water.
Assuming Royal Mail is as slow as Canadian Mail… drop the keys in an enevelop and mail them to yourself. Want extra punishment? Forget to add the postal code or whatever it’s called in the UK. You will get them eventually.
Third choice is to go to one of those large online retalers that like to bust unions and buy a time lock jewelry safe. That way you can set the time you want to endure, and there is no way around it.
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I have been interested in this for a while now. I picked out a cage that fits me and have worn it for very short periods of time like an hour max and I was the only one who knew I was wearing it. I’ve mentioned this interest to my wife, but she hasn’t taken me up on the offer of placing me in chastity under her control. That’s the part that turns me on the most. We’ll see.
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Communication is by far the most important thing. Help her understand what you get out of it. What you want from it and what you don’t.
Even if there are fantasies around it that excite you but you’d never want to do. Open communication is key to making it work.
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I got mine put on this morning after being allowed to fuck her. Might get it off in about a few days, probably after the weekend once she’s met her bull.
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A quick question for a newbie.
What size should I choose?
I’m about 1.5 inches soft, should I look for the actual size or slightly bigger/smaller?
Thanks.
I wouldn’t need a cage as I wouldnt ever masturbate if I had someone special in my life, not even if we are apart for a few days/weeks… That would be pretty awesome to fuck that someone special after not cumming for a few days/weeks and it would all go deep inside her making her feel sooo amazing, beautiful and special.
Honestly the best way is to buy your best guess then see if you need anything different.
Cages are a very personal preference, but the two key measurements are ring size and cage gap.
Ring size is the base ring that goes around behind your balls, common sizes are 40, 45 & 50mm. Too loose and your cage will fall off easily, too tight and you restrict bloodflow. You should be able to get a finger up to your first knuckle between your body and the ring.
Cage gap is trickier as these are often not changeable and can vary based on the size and shape of the ring (oval or body shaped rings can have a wider gap), same issues with the ring size, too loose and a ball will escape (this can be quite painful), too tight and youll have bloodflow issues.
Cage length is very subjective, i prefer nub or short cages as they dont allow for any start of an erection (youll appreciate this if wearing through the night), but the general rule of thumb is the same length or fractionally smaller than your flaccid size.
The cage opening is also important. If there is only a small hole at the front, this can make peeing messy (you often end up peeing over your balls), some of these devices are eesigned to be worn with a catheter.
Metal tends to be more hygenic than plastic, but plastic is lighter than metal. Some have plenty of gaps in the cage for cleaning, reducing need for removal.
There are a range of cages on Lovehoney, but other chinese sale sites have options too that may provide more options.
Letting go of your control over orgasm is quite enlightening and the sustained rush/high you get from sex not involving your penis quickly develops into sometging youll think twice about before cumming yourself.