Hi, I am looking for suggestions of some main stream films that have some erotic scenes. I seriously doubt my OH would watch porn if I asked her out right but with the right film it could be a conversation started.
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I think the obvious would be 50 shades, I preferred the 2nd movie. The first was a little rapey and abusive and the 3rd was too romantic.
Secretary.
The seriesā Sexlife, Sense8 (has some really sexy scenes in it and is a really good series outside of the sex), Spartacus - I donāt remember this being a good series but there is a lot of sex in it.
Hopefully youāll get some decent optionsā¦Iāll be ready to take notes!
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Lots of suggestions in Recommendations: sexy, fun movies, not porn
365 days is pretty steamy, the plot isnāt great but the sex sceneās are 
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Thank you. Might have to āstumbleā across the 2nd 50 shades film sometime soon 
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I would ask her out right as a first choice, she will ask what porn so you need to be specific. If she does not like sex on the screen drop it. If she is interested showing some mild erotic films such as 91/2 weeks may help her interest.
You think she may not like porn at all, then perhaps just leave it.
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Missed that thread. Thank you.
Thank you for the suggestion. Mildly erotic is more like it than full on porn
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@MrDark I agree totally with @DanceswithPenguins
Ask her outright rather than make her feel uncomfortable with a āsurpriseā erotic film.
Have the discussion firstlyā¦you may be surprised at her suggestionsā¦or it be what you expectā¦but at least you will know and itās better than putting it on and it causing a problemā¦hopefully you will find the stuff sheās intrigued to see and avoid the stuff she doesnāt.
Good Luck
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āBoundā A gangsterās girlfriend teams up with a female ex-con and decide to rob him. Itās gripping and very hot!
Nothing explicit but all the hotter for it.
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For me, the scene in Topgun (the original), when Kelly McGilis walks down the middle of the class in the hanger for the first time wearing seamed stockings (well I always imagine they are stockings).
I always have to pause, rewind and replay in slow mo for that scene!
R xx
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Depends on your definition of steamy, but āfriends with benefitsā (the film) appeals to me. Its a romcom though, so the comedy element is pretty high
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Bad teacher has some great scenes - especially the car wash.
Sex life on Netflix was good.
Secret diary of a call girl with Billie Piper in was very hot and had an ok story line
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What sort of film genres do you both like?
Some implied hot scenes in American Werewolf in London. Jenny Agutter plays a nurse. Nothing shown cunnilingus from a man bitten by Werewolf. My you have a long tongue. Comment before orgasm.
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Thats not a bad film. Been a while since weve seen it so might be worth a rewatch.
Hi what channel are theybon
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I think we watched 365 Days on Netflix if that is what you mean?
Hi yes thanks hope your keeping well
There is currently a series available on Sky, called " The afair". It has some of the raunchiest sex scenes ive seen in an American show.
It does look like he is f@%king her.
Quite a complicated plot.
It has won Golden globe awards , so has critical acclaim.
Not to be watched with the maiden aunt or kids in the room.
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āOutlanderā is a half decent series with some not-bad-for-telly sex scenes
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