Hey peeps. I’m away from home working a lot of the time. Anyone find jus a wank boring? Iv got a prostate massager but want to go further with solo play, any tips on what yous get up to?
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Hey sir 
have you considered a fleshlight or stroker?
For anal you’ve got buttplugs both that vibrate, inflate and thrust, Or some can do all three lol!
There’s also more kinkier things you can delve into like nipple clamps/suckers and sounding 
Are the strikers any good? They actually feel like being inside someone? The butt plugs good for orgasms?
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What is a fleshlight?
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stokers can be really good especially if they’re textured. They kinda add something extra to your hand jerking.
And Some buttplugs can definitely help with prostate orgasms, my current favourite is the doc Johnson inflatable vibrating plug. I funnily used it last night and it felt wonderful.
That’s great, will try them. Never thought a butt plug would hit your prostate. I’m so eager to try more ways of prostate and anal orgasm
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Fleshlights are similar to strokers but come in a plastic casing what looks like a flashlight 
and has an adjustable air pressure valve for suction comfort. They’re really good for imitating the real feel of intercourse and many guys wedge it between bed mattress or somewhere so they can hands freely thrust into it like having real sex 
Lovehoney has a great range of them available on site in both vagina or anal styles depending on your preference 
Another great toy I’ve recently had was a duel density dildo from king cock and that was a pleasure trying out as it felt very realistic
Any other places to look at quality anal vibrators?
I was looking for other way to enjoy masterbation and just couldn’t get on with fleshlights so bout a warming penis vibrator, bit like a fleshlights as such but it vibrates and massages you. I also went and bought an electrastim prostate massager, that was definitely a game changer for me that sometimes I don’t have to touch myself
@Woolyfrog that good? Where you find the prostate massager? I have had that once when I didn’t touch myself and came, only once though and was best orgasm of my life
It’s been that good for me though will depend on my mood
I think this is the one on the Lovehoney website though you would need to buy a controller separately. Can’t remember where I bought mine from though.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/electro-medical-fetish/electro-sex-toys/p/electrastim-quadri-polar-electrosex-silicone-prostate-massager/a31234g53584.html
I’m still old school and enjoy a good tug while reading porn (I still use magazines) and I take it slowly until I find the picture that I want to blow over
Not a big fan of flesh light and I like to see myself ejeculate
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A tug is same feeling every time. The prostate is way to go
Sounding will result in much stronger orgasms. Maybe worth trying solo then introducing your partner to the joys of using sounds.
I use my solo sessions as a time to explore my sexuality in a safe space. I also like to try new things I first started experimenting with anal during solo sessions.
Hi @Dom624 some examples below from LH website for fleshlights.
Lots to decide from all parts of the desired body / sex depending what you after.
Experiment with lotions and lubes. I have on occasion used cold custard (out of carton or tin) and vegatable oil (perhaps do that in the bath).
Oh I recently enjoyed one in a whirlpool bath on holiday.
You could try wearing women’s underwear… a nice tight thong always does it for me 
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Or a little bit of self bondage or tie a thong around your cock like a cock ring. I love that and it gets me very hard and turned on.
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