Hey Guys,
My wife and I are just beginning a female led marriage and are going to be partaking in some male chastity.
Her main problem is that she likes penetrative sex but obviously chastity doesn't help with this.
We are looking for options in terms of a suitable strapon for me to use on her so she gets penetration but I remain in my cage.
I was very tempted by the RodeoH style boxers rather than a strapon with straps as I feel they look ungainly and take time to fit.
Does any one have any experience of this? Pros or Cons?
Thanks.
Well, both my wife and I are pretty quick at getting our harnesses on as they can be left adjusted or have D-rings that make tightening quick. The harness I use is (I think) no longer made but the SpareParts Deuce looks good and seems to be generally well reviewed if you hunt about on the web.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26580&reviewpage=1
Pity its quite so expensive or we would buy one to add to our collection.
I was also going to recommend the Spareparts Deuce. It has two holes; one for the dildo and one for your bits. A double hole strap on, or a hollow strap-on (this might be difficult if you are to stay in your cage) would be ideal.
Thanks for the suggestions.
I suppose the RodeoH pants look good to me as they look more normal wear but I'll take a look at the Spareparts Deuce.
I've been looking into this too as we're in the same position with me being caged and my OH still wanting penetrative sex.
I spoke and emailed the LH staff and although they were very helpful the truth is they don't actually have a harness that panders to our specific situation.
However I have found a harness on another fetish wear site that is designed specificall for men to use whist caged.
I hope I'm not breaking any rules by mentioning this product as LH doesn't stock one. The harness I've found is the Meo Male Chastity Harness - I haven't got one yet but having tried an ordinary harness that just isn't designed for the job I am going to.
Lol. I'm caged too but we don't get a choice about when we come out. She has the key. I could if I really wanted to get out of the cage but my balls would still be in the device.
Well I don't get a choice anyway.
I do love the fact she proudly wears your key. I don't have a key for my cage, rather a security screw. My other half can't wear that round her neck.
You could try a strapless strapon (Love honey sell several) but put the short end up your ass and your keyholder could ride the 'cock'.
I haven't tried but think it would work.
Enjoy.
Alternatively, why not you penetrate her with your fingers and fist? This is what my slave does.
muttsnutts wrote:
Well I don't get a choice anyway.
I do love the fact she proudly wears your key. I don't have a key for my cage, rather a security screw. My other half can't wear that round her neck.
This is one of the big turn ons when locked away - a couple of people have asked her about the key when she's worn it around her neck on a chain but she's shyedaway from telling them the real significance, just saying it's the key to my husbands heart!
But the idea that one day someone will find out gets me going.