Recently my wife was given me oral sex, whilst moving her hands she started touching around the scrotum and anus, it was a big turn on
She didn’t insert her finger in my anus, as she was unsure and so was i, but for me at the time i was really enjoying the moment and maybe we should have gone further…
Any tips to go to next step for both of us and what can both of us expect… Also any good tips…
I absolutely love when my GF fingers around my anus. I get excited even when she puts the lube there. She does put her finger in but just when I’m about to climax. Wonderful.
We’re only now figuring out how she can find my prostate. I don’t even know if my prostate is a pleasure spot. I’m also concerned about some comments about guy’s erections going down when getting prostate pleasure.
My GF always has a lip lock on me when giving me anal play and would be quite disappointed if I got soft.
Have fun, just make she trims her fingernail!
Just a few other comments:
From my reading if you want to explore prostate pleasure it appears she’ll want her finger curved or angled in direction of your cock.
My GF and I have a slight catch22 because the position she employs being down on me only leaves one hand. The issue is that when I’m getting close the head of my cock is super sensitive, too sensitive. Better if she finishes by hand. But it’s that same time I like it when she pushes her finger in my butt. We could try a different position where both her hands are free but she very much likes what she does now.
From other info on the forum our new idea is for me to not be bashful about using my own hand on my cock when her mouth becomes too much.
Btw, we tried a small vibrating butt plug. No comparison to I live finger.
Have fun.
Not to dominate this thread but while waiting for responses, a few more thoughts came to mind.
Regards any worries, assuming your partner is using a bare finger, obviously not having an unhealed cut etc. is not good because there is a bacteria issue. Related is cleaning one’s finger shorty after. Unless I’m missing it I don’t see many threads here addressing anal and health issues.
I think it was Paula Poundstone who did a funny bit about just what do you do with your asshole finger afterwards- hold in the air? Put it under the pillow? Etc.
Damaging the rectum is not good but with a manicured finger nail and not going over the top vigorous I can’t envision an issue. But, there are lots of folks on this site with plenty of anal experience.
Something else I don’t see much about here is prepping for anal. That said, even with knowing about enemas, colon cleansing etc., the most I do is just make sure my butt is washed. If there is competition in there skipping her finger in on that occasion is fine. I couldn’t be bothered with an enema.
You’ve probably seen here some what to me are pretty over the top anal activities. For example one fellow is up to a 9.5” circumference dildo. That’s approx. 3” diameter. Whew.
I’m not critical here about what anal others are in to, it’s just for me what we do is plenty. She can be down on me for quite some time and a short amount of anal play and I’m a goner. I’m old and as you’ll find out the strength of orgasms diminish. But, the addition of our mild anal improves my orgasms.
Glad this happened for you, great discovery eh?
Absolutely go further, ever since the 1st time my wife fingered me years ago I’ve been hooked on anal play, and prostate orgasm’s
No orgasm comes close to a prostate orgasm.
Advice I’d give, take it slow, communicate, and plenty lube…
No such thing as too much lube.
Talk to your wife before you try again. Ask how she felt about it and if it excited her. Tell her what feelings it has brought up for you.
You could try it yourself so you know how it feels and then you can guide your wife.
Or, just go with it and be really open about how it feels for you both as you do it. You both need to be able to say what you feel, if you want her to pull out a bit, go slower etc.
There are lots of anal threads, that will give you ideas and tips on making sure you’re clean. Have a read 
I completely agree, my wife is the only person I’ve done this with and it wasn’t planned. Advice I’d give, take it slow, communicate, and plenty lube…
No such thing as too much lube.
The other thing is this, listen to your body!! Your mind might be ok with it, but your ass doesn’t always comply. If it isn’t pleasurable or “easy” to a degree, don’t force it. Not only will it not be fun for you, but your partner might become hesitant to try again if it isn’t fun. Start with her finger or thin toys, them advance when you know that your ass is ready for more!!
Plenty of topics on here to look into it, but communication is the key, tell her how much you enjoyed it and would like to go further
I’ve also read about pushing on the perineum to feel for the prostate, described as a walnut shape. I know I’ve touched it from the outside because I hear his response and if im pushing on it his orgasm is quite intense. I think even in this position you need to be careful not to push your hand into another spot because it can be a shock. I did that once by mistake. I find it very hot to see him really enjoying the intensity, I think the next thing is for me to put a plug into me, for him to see that i enjoy it, so im taking my time with that.
Get a prostate massager. Best orgasm iv ever had. Took a few times to get it n Havnt had one since but was fucking amazing