Has anyone mastered the art of keeping going immediately after cumming? Would like to overcome the loss of interest upon cumming. Seems like a psychological thing which Id imagined can be trained into oneself. Anyone overcum this?
I never had a problem with this.
When I cum my OH starts stimulating me again with a tease or a BJ.
You have to want it aswell. You have to think, yes i'm going to take her again.
But loke I said it's really easy for me. Don't know how it is for someone else.
Good luck
Hi Hen Night Toad. After we cum, it's the chemicals/hormones that are instantly released around the body which makes you feel very relaxed and makes it hard to maintain interest and an erection. Unfortunately, this is very natural.
We can normally wait 10 minutes and go again. However, if I carry on going after cumming, I can sometimes maintain an erection, but really have to focus on tensing my penis until the hormones have dispersed in my body. Otherwise, it starts to go flacid after a while haha.
Taking ginko supplement pills might help as they are suspected of improving blood flow and circulation. There might be other things on the market that can effect the way hormones are dispersed after ejaculating, but I wouldn't bother unless it's medically safe.
Hope this helped :)
A good cock ring can help you stay hard after ejaculation. But you've really gotta be in the mood too.
I find that if I'm really really horny I can carry on after ejaculation, especially if I haven't cum for several days.
Hope this might help
I except it and the focus on oral or finger's for abit on My OH as she is multiorgasmic untill iam hard again might take 20 mins or so. or better still delay your orgasm.
It's pretty difficult to stay interested on your own, so try and have a partner there to keep you focused. If you're just alone and masturbating, then it's pretty much normal to just lose interest after you cum.
Sometimes I can keep going after I have cum without loosing my erection, it depends on how horny I feel.
Other times my wife stimulates me with her hand (firm pressure) or mouth as soon as I cum to prevent me from going soft - seems to work.