Question for the penis-owners and those who love them who are experienced with multiple orgasms. I’ve been doing some reading and practicing around the idea of the dry orgasm, or being able to pause at orgasm but before ejaculation. After spending quite a bit of time in solo play this week - and the ongoing thread about women who experience 3+ orgasms per session - I’m curious if anyone has the experience to articulate what’s the difference between actually hitting that point of multiples as opposed to just edging?
As an additional point, over the last year or two I’ve had more and more experiences during sex of pausing before my point of no return and experiencing what I think feels like a partial orgasm: tightening and pulsing at the base of my penis (in my prostate?) and even accompanied with a single spurt of cloudy pre-cum - more than a drip, but just a fraction of a full load - and no impact to my erection. I can then continue until ejaculation and identifiable orgasm.
Anyway - hoping for a lively discussion here around getting the penises out for more than one round!
I don’t know about the dry orgasm, but certainly you can “ruin” ruin your orgasms by stopping all simulation at the point of no return, getting the ejaculation without the orgasm. If timed correctly, you can experience three, four or more such ejaculations, essentially milking you dry before either stopping or finishing off in the usual way. This technique is often used by chastity players to keep their pipes flushed without having the orgasms to prolong the denial and maintain their headspace whilst locked down.
I’m pretty sure my husband gets multiples. No refractory period, and ejaculation each time, at least for the first three times. I’ll feel him cum in me, and not even pull out, just keep going for more.
So I can have multiple orgasms when I ruin them. I still ejaculate but as it’s hands free you can go again pretty soon after. It’s really fun but it took me a while to learn about my body and exactly how many I could do in a ‘session.’ The feeling is epic though!
If I slowly build myself up to it and use toys I can sorta do a “chain orgasm” where I have like several rapid fire orgasms in a row for like 10-20 seconds
I’ve recently learned the art of the dry orgasms. And yes they are possible. Here’s a few tips. Firstly, your endurance has a bit to do with it. My endurance varies, especially if I haven’t nutted in a couple days or more. Some days I can’t even nut at all. I take antidepressants so those are always helpful to prolong ejaculation. Practice is the key. It took me a couple weeks of kegals to get it right. For me personally, dry orgasms only work during a bj, hj, or masturbating. If I’m in my wife’s pussy, then forget about it. For me it’s also about the pressure points. Pressing and rubbing under my head, and another spot at the base. Using a cock ring also helps. One to apply pressure around the base, and another one around the top of my sack to LIGHTLY cut off the circulation. It works best when I’m high and everything about my whole body is SUPER sensitive. The orgasms will literally last as long as I’m continuing the stimulation. Of course I have to stop every 30-60 seconds-ish because I run out of breath and my face feels like it’s about to explode off my face.