I (40m) recently discovered how amazing it feels to play with my bum hole, more specifically doing myself up the bum with a dildo.
Wondering how many other men enjoy solo anal play.
And
What do women think about guys who likes his bum fucked?
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I love anal solo play. Do it often either in bed or I put a suction dildo on the wall of the shower an f@*k myself in there
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I do solo anal play all the time with wife’s knowledge. Wife loves it and loves to peg me. Been doing this for a number of years.
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I love it too, only started about a year ago. My wife knows about it, but hasn’t wanted to join in when I’ve asked her if she’d be open to pegging. I’m hoping I can warm her up to it eventually 
But she’s OK with knowing i use a dildo. One thing I’ve tried and has sent my orgasms to another planet is riding my dildo while i have sex with her. Soooo good!!!
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Cant beat a good butt plug
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I do enjoy solo anal play.
I often wear big butt plugs for hours in and out of the house and I have 2 fuxxing machines with dildo attachments but I much prefer it when my wife is involved and pegging me with one of her strap-ons.
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With a toy… I think he has a prostate that enjoys being stimulated, the same as I have a clitorus and G-spot that like being stimulated. I don’t see a difference.
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Butt play is amazing. My wife pegs me on a regular basis and I love the feeling. Solo butt play is also so stimulating. We are both open about masturbation and both enjoy as well as both PIV and PIA sex. I love it when my wife watches me insert my butt plug or ride my dildo when masturbating.
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Sounds like you need to Google prostate massagers. It’s a whole new world of masturbatory pleasure, and takes a lot of mastering (I am still trying), but can provide completely new feelings.
I love anal Masturbation and prostate play. I have tried all kinds of toys however have found I get the most pleasure from using dildos to rub my prostate. The pleasure I get is on another level of that from stimulating my cock. It’s more intense and deep. Best of all I can enjoy drawn out sessions, having multiple orgasms.
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I love it, all elements of it, as does my wife.
Those special spots feel amazing, but so does the stretch… and the pride I feel when I manage something even bigger…
Don’t get to as much as I’d like because of kids, but when I do get the chance I go at it hard! Haha
We use all sorts of things, my favourite experience of the last year is, after ages of trying, my wife succeeding in fisting my butt…
But taking an 18” dildo all the way in was pretty amazing as well!
I love it. I use the NJoy wand which I highly recommend.
OH wouldn’t be keen so I keep it to myself and restrict any bum fun for when she is out. The possibility of being caught adds an extra layer of excitement. She doesn’t mind playing with my bum whilst giving a HJ or BJ but I know she wouldn’t be keen on full penetration.
I would love to be pegged but it’s never going to happen. Even a finger to massage the prostate would be nice. That’ll have to remain a fantasy unless I have a one night stand at some point!
Used to, when in a relationship with an OH who didn’t get it. I loved nothing more than a suction cup on the fridge door, or just absolutely hammering myself. No need now and much better with someone I adore
Solo anal play is amazing! What’s your go to dildo to use?
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After my wife pegged me many years ago , I love using all sorts of anal toys . I spent a fairly good amount on prostrate massagers and they we OK . The funny thing is , one of my cheapest toys is a favorite . A cock / ball ring attached to a vibrating butt plug . The unit also has a perineum vibrator . It cost a fifth of my most expensive prostrate massager . Another favorite toy is a smart phone controlled egg . I can wear it under clothing , however half the fun is when sitting the nub control can change setting or turn off or on . Wife is inactive for a number of years so my anal fun is totally DIY . I have five suction cup dildos , all cock shaped . One smooth and the rest with cock like texture . I use them in the shower wall most often , the side of dresser . And I made a totally adjustable mount at the foot of our bed . Here is a shot of it . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/70
Smallest is 6" and biggest 9" . I may not play anally for multiple days in a row and then I get that craving to ride a dildo and gyrate and buck wildly .
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I do love solo anal play with a dildo but I like it much more when my wife pegs me. I have a King Cock 8 inch dildo 2.5 inch girth that I really love to use for solo play
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I love solo anal play too, but I can’t take big (girthy) plugs or dildos. Only 3.5" circumference or less for me, preferably less otherwise it hurts.
Love anal play on myself 
my wife doesn’t mind playing with me either, though a little reluctant. She’s never pegged me though, it is something I’d love her to do.
Btw have a read of my experience with anal orgasms. It is something I recently could do after 20+ years of self anal play.
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A prostate orgasm is on another level. If you get it right it’s a completely hands free orgasm where it drips rather than spurts from you. The feelings are off the scale compared to a common or garden wank.
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I love the feeling of pressure on my G-spot so plugs have always been a favourite of mine, but we do also like having kinky nights with some
Pegging.
I would suggest getting a medium size vibrating plug and see how that feels for you. It’s a super deep and strong sensation
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